My boyfriend is here for the week. I should be happy, right? Of course! I'm 100% happy... Until my mom comes around. She's extremely abusive and has been extra bad since he got here. To the point where all I wanna do is sit here and cry for the rest of the week. I don't understand why him being here has made her so much worse, but she is.
I don't even know what to do at this point... If she continues acting like this, I'm thinking about just packing a bag and going back with him. It's just so hard... I haven't flown since I was a little girl. I have terrible anxiety now (thanks to my mom) and I have a job, school, and other responsibilities here. I'm afraid that moving there will "ruin my life." But isn't staying here with her ruining my life, too?
I'm so conflicted. I mean, there's a good chance that even if she gets nicer this week while he's here, she might get worse again after he leaves. And then I'll be too afraid to fly alone, so I'll just have to stay here. If I move there, I'll be moving in with his family. Which his family would be fine with... I just won't have a job or a car or my dog or my stuff...
I feel so heartbroken right now and I should be the happiest person ever because I just got to spend part of my day with my boyfriend.
This sucks. Sorry for whining. I just need to rant somewhere right now because I'm about to lose it. Is "closing the distance" because of such awful circumstances (and possibly losing my dog, my possessions, and the little bit of good that's left in my relationship with my mom) a good idea? If it wasn't for my dog (my baby), I don't even think I'd care anymore...
I don't even know what to do at this point... If she continues acting like this, I'm thinking about just packing a bag and going back with him. It's just so hard... I haven't flown since I was a little girl. I have terrible anxiety now (thanks to my mom) and I have a job, school, and other responsibilities here. I'm afraid that moving there will "ruin my life." But isn't staying here with her ruining my life, too?
I'm so conflicted. I mean, there's a good chance that even if she gets nicer this week while he's here, she might get worse again after he leaves. And then I'll be too afraid to fly alone, so I'll just have to stay here. If I move there, I'll be moving in with his family. Which his family would be fine with... I just won't have a job or a car or my dog or my stuff...
I feel so heartbroken right now and I should be the happiest person ever because I just got to spend part of my day with my boyfriend.
This sucks. Sorry for whining. I just need to rant somewhere right now because I'm about to lose it. Is "closing the distance" because of such awful circumstances (and possibly losing my dog, my possessions, and the little bit of good that's left in my relationship with my mom) a good idea? If it wasn't for my dog (my baby), I don't even think I'd care anymore...
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