Need some advice/feedback

[ldrxoxo]

Welcome! I get exactly what you mean. It makes me mad, too that my interest would used to say he's so "busy" he can't talk to me but I'll see him tweet and re-tweet girls he sees in person anyway when he could have been talking to me in texts. I wouldn't worry as long as he is still communicating with you. I'd worry when he goes two to three weeks without talking to you at all. When I went off on my interest what was the deal with the silence, he told me to stop assuming he was with other girls and I'm like, "okay" usually when someone doesn't talk to me, especially for that long, that means they have found someone else and don't have the guts to tell me.

I'll take his word for it that he was just busy with work and school, even though I see him tweet and re-tweet girls he sees. I don't know if he actually likes those girls or if they're just class mates, but really it does piss me off when he goes out of his way to talk to people online he sees but he won't make time for me that I just let it go for now to see if he'll make more efforts when he doesn't have school in the summer.

[hellokitty3]

Welcome! I get exactly what you mean. It makes me mad, too that my interest would used to say he's so "busy" he can't talk to me but I'll see him tweet and re-tweet girls he sees in person anyway when he could have been talking to me in texts. I wouldn't worry as long as he is still communicating with you. I'd worry when he goes two to three weeks without talking to you at all. When I went off on my interest what was the deal with the silence, he told me to stop assuming he was with other girls and I'm like, "okay" usually when someone doesn't talk to me, especially for that long, that means they have found someone else and don't have the guts to tell me.

I'll take his word for it that he was just busy with work and school, even though I see him tweet and re-tweet girls he sees. I don't know if he actually likes those girls or if they're just class mates, but really it does piss me off when he goes out of his way to talk to people online he sees but he won't make time for me that I just let it go for now to see if he'll make more efforts when he doesn't have school in the summer.

it does suck right? I'm not really upset anymore but I just kind of wanted to vent about yesterday. I know it was Mother's Day and we both had plans. I texted him in the morning saying good morning, wishing he had a great day and I asked for him to wish his mom a happy Mother's Day for me. he texted back a little later and said good morning and asked me to do the same with my mom. after that maybe 6 hours later I had sent a picture of my lunch and a cake I had made but he didn't say anything which I was fine with, I'm sure he was busy with family. then a little bit later I had tweeted some lyrics from a song we like and he favorited it, so I was taking that as a "hello" but I didn't text him. then around 7:50 he facetimed me but hung up, so I waited a minute and gave him just a regular call back and he said it was an accident and that he was driving home and had his brother in the car with him and that he would call me a little later. well come almost 11 I still never heard from him so I said "goodnight" and right away he asked me a few questions about my lunch and cake, there was a little bit of a silence again, so I said to have a good night okay? and still nothing was said so I just said "goodnight, I hope your day went well." and he said "I miss you a lot. goodnight my sweet girl" and I asked if he was going to still be up for awhile but he said he was in bed and had to get up in 4 hours. so I said "alright, I guess maybe we can talk tomorrow if you want." and I felt bad because it came off kind of rude so I said "and so I don't sound like a jerk, I miss you too, I hope you sleep alright <3" and I texted him when I got up this morning and said "morning! hope you have a good day! I also hope you get a good nap in later" and he replied with "good morning!" and said to let him know if this place calls back about my follow up interview. I said that I hoped they called back today and I wished him a good day again and it was left from there...I guess after no talking yesterday i just missed him...sigh

[silvermoonfairy3]

I'm not 100% sure what you're expecting from him with these "sighs" after he's in touch for a few texts and then doesn't answer. Are you looking for full-length conversations conducted via text?

[whatruckus]

Take it all with a grain of salt. :] I've noticed it's just something that some guys do. Lol. My boyfriend does the SAME THING. I'll text him (um, like I did today!!) and he won't respond, but I see him log in to Facebook on his phone.

Just chalk it up to him being him, and this is just one of the annoying little things you'll have to deal with.

When my boyfriend does this, it doesn't mean he's blatantly ignoring me to be mean, it usually just means he's not in the mood to talk, or have a full conversation at the moment. Knowing my boyfriend, he usually just checks Facebook for a like a minute, shuts his phone off, and either watches a show or takes a nap. Like I said in a different thread, some guys are really up to talking all the time, when they have time, some aren't. Everyone's different. I'm sure there are some ladies who are the same way. :]

P.S. - I'm on B.C. too and sometimes it can make me a little wacky. Don't worry about it too much, and don't stress yourself out. Go eat some chocolate, or some ice cream. Watch a movie. Take a nap. :] Relax. <3