Need some advice on what to do next
Okay, first things first, as I mentioned in my introduction post, I'm "unofficially" in a LDR, but I want to atleast make this official, that's what happens:
A little more than a year ago I met this girl through internet, we talked a lot for some time and became friends. A few weeks later I started to notice something special on her and, after some time, I decided to tell her my feelings. Not everything went well and not only I got rejected, but she asked some time till we talk again (a few days later she sent me a message that she missed me and we became friends again).
During the next months, not only we became closer friends and exchanged phone numbers, but we also came to a point that we trusted each other so much that we talked about simply everything, from ordinary stuff from our daily lifes to more personal things, like secret crushes and stuff like that. At some point eventually we were supporting each other during break ups and bad days. Even recently, when we were more busy in our studies/jobs and couldn't talk, we managed to leave a message to each other sometimes - most, if not all of these messages contained atleast one compliment or message of care to the other.
And it was like this, until a few days ago. We started to talk about our birthdays, and that would be cool to see each other there - we laughed at the idea, even not being really possible at the moment. And then, about one week later, we were talking about our daily lifes, when she said that I was so nice that I was who deserved her feelings and we ended up agreeing that someday we could end up together.
Since then, I've been confused, whether should I propose her an "official" LDR or if I should wait some time (a few months, atleast, due to job issues) until we get to meet personally. I really want to, specially to show her that she's very significant to me, but I fear that what happened last time happens again... I'm so confused on what to do...
A little more than a year ago I met this girl through internet, we talked a lot for some time and became friends. A few weeks later I started to notice something special on her and, after some time, I decided to tell her my feelings. Not everything went well and not only I got rejected, but she asked some time till we talk again (a few days later she sent me a message that she missed me and we became friends again).
During the next months, not only we became closer friends and exchanged phone numbers, but we also came to a point that we trusted each other so much that we talked about simply everything, from ordinary stuff from our daily lifes to more personal things, like secret crushes and stuff like that. At some point eventually we were supporting each other during break ups and bad days. Even recently, when we were more busy in our studies/jobs and couldn't talk, we managed to leave a message to each other sometimes - most, if not all of these messages contained atleast one compliment or message of care to the other.
And it was like this, until a few days ago. We started to talk about our birthdays, and that would be cool to see each other there - we laughed at the idea, even not being really possible at the moment. And then, about one week later, we were talking about our daily lifes, when she said that I was so nice that I was who deserved her feelings and we ended up agreeing that someday we could end up together.
Since then, I've been confused, whether should I propose her an "official" LDR or if I should wait some time (a few months, atleast, due to job issues) until we get to meet personally. I really want to, specially to show her that she's very significant to me, but I fear that what happened last time happens again... I'm so confused on what to do...
I hope he doesn't read that... I've never told him, lol.
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