I am definitely a lot more polite when I speak English, but not because it's English I speak, but because I connect speaking English with English manners, such as saying "please" all the time ("could I please have the butter?" instead of "could I have the butter?", which is as polite as it gets in Swedish, at least my dialect) and apologize for everything. I'm very direct in Finnish, partly because I don't speak it much and partly because that's the Finnish way. In my dialect I am rather direct as well, though I have different levels of dialect (closer and further away from high Swedish (standard Swedish) ) that I use in different situations with different people, I rarely speak high Swedish. I definitely have different personalities in Swedish regardless of how I'm talking though, if I'm taking a shift as a carer I'm polite, chatty, caring and generally positive, if I'm working in the shop I'm helpful, informative, efficient and energetic, if I'm with friends I'm my crazy self.
I should add that regardless of how well I know a language I always think it when I speak it, be it my very basic french or fluent English.
I should add that regardless of how well I know a language I always think it when I speak it, be it my very basic french or fluent English.
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