He didn't give any real reason. He sounded colder than he ever has. He was basically heartless. I don't know what to do with that. We were supposed to see each other this weekend. We only had to make it till December. I feel so very broken.
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That's never an easy pill to swallow. Being that u guys were together a year it seems that another 6 months should have been easy. You're still young and have a lot of life ahead of you. The fact that he didn't give any real reason and that he was very cold makes me think of something. I did something similar to my gf when I was a much younger man...and much more immature than I am now. I hate to plant this thought, but I cheated on her. My guilt ate me up so bad I broke it off immediately after and couldn't bring myself to tell her why. She confronted me days later and I broke down and told her. She still wanted me back but it didn't last long after that. I broke her trust and that's usually a deal breaker. Moral here tho, you should try to confront him on a reason. Think of why he wouldn't tell you and ask him if that's why. I don't know ur situation or anything about the relationship, but if this is something out of the blue and there were no signs of this approaching, then my money is on something he has done that goes against his moral compass.
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Originally posted by nottheprincesspeach View PostHe didn't give any real reason. He sounded colder than he ever has. He was basically heartless. I don't know what to do with that. We were supposed to see each other this weekend. We only had to make it till December. I feel so very broken.
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Did he completely cut you off, or are communication channels still open? If it is still possible to contact him, give him a few days, and then contact him, and ask him what happened all of a sudden, and why he couldn't wait to talk to you on your weekend visit. You need to talk to him if he's willing.
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Yeah, give him and yourself a few days of space, but at least make a genuine attempt at talking things out with him then. Getting closure can help heaps, so if it's possible, get things sorted and see how you stand. If he really wants out for good, that's heartbreaking for sure, but then it's all the more important that you talk and leave things on decent, cleared up terms.
I really hope things are salvagable or at least discussable. I wish you the best of luck from the bottom of my heart.
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-hugs- Hopefully with some space, he'll gives you he explanation and closure you deserve.
But for now, concentrate on you. Hope things get better <3
Met online: 04.19.14
Became a couple: 04.23.14
First Visit: 08.09.14-08.15.14
Second Visit: 12.17.14-12.28.14
Third Visit: 02.13.15-02.15.15
Fourth Visit: 04.03.15-04.06.15
CLOSED THE DISTANCE/GOT MARRIED: 06.22.15/06.27.15
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Aw, I'm sorry this happend =(
Hopefully with a little space he'll tell you why. You atleast deserve an explanation. He only had a few months to go.
*~ wishing you the best~*"We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."
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