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    Breakups...Saying Goodbye... :(

    I really have enjoyed peeking around the forums, I haven't been super active - but I probably won't be around as much because my now ex-boyfriend is a jerk and realized that he couldn't handle our relationship so he just decided to ignore me - I got in touch with him (rather he finally emailed me after not contacting me AT ALL for 2 weeks) - and I can't do this. I can't be with someone who treats me this way. If he couldn't handle it, he should have told me instead of ignoring me. But whatever, what's happened has happened.

    So I won't be around as much, but y'all really are a wonderful group. And I do wish you all the best!
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    Aw thank you for those wishes =)
    That was quite selfish of him, to not tell you right away. Good luck with your life, and best wishes!
    "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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      #3
      Originally posted by Unconditional View Post
      Aw thank you for those wishes =)
      That was quite selfish of him, to not tell you right away. Good luck with your life, and best wishes!
      You're very welcome. And I agree - I would have understood if he had just directly told me straight up "I can't handle this. I'm sorry." I would be upset, but nothing like this. I'm doing all I can to just not curse him out - but that isn't who I am... I'm more frustrated and hurt at the moment than anything else.

      Thank you. :]

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        #4
        Originally posted by nemolove_22 View Post
        You're very welcome. And I agree - I would have understood if he had just directly told me straight up "I can't handle this. I'm sorry." I would be upset, but nothing like this. I'm doing all I can to just not curse him out - but that isn't who I am... I'm more frustrated and hurt at the moment than anything else.

        Thank you. :]
        Your welcome. I've been where you are right now... it sucks
        "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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          #5
          Originally posted by Unconditional View Post
          Your welcome. I've been where you are right now... it sucks
          It does suck...

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            #6
            Originally posted by nemolove_22 View Post
            It does suck...
            I know =( but, it's better to find out now than say, a year down the road. There's a silver lining to this, it might just take you a while to see it, don't lose hope =)
            "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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              #7
              Originally posted by Unconditional View Post
              I know =( but, it's better to find out now than say, a year down the road. There's a silver lining to this, it might just take you a while to see it, don't lose hope =)
              I'll do my best not to - it's just hard. Bleh, anyways, yeah. I may come around still, but I don't know. I'm still trying to figure everything out.

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                #8
                I'm sorry sweetie, you deserve so much better than that. Best wishes!

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                  #9
                  so sorry to hear that You deserve better, good luck with everything

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by nemolove_22 View Post
                    I'll do my best not to - it's just hard. Bleh, anyways, yeah. I may come around still, but I don't know. I'm still trying to figure everything out.
                    Well, no one is making you leave.. feel free to stay ^-^
                    But yes, take time to sort this out, it takes a lot out of you emotionally
                    "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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                      #11
                      Thank you. I had a feeling that something was up - but ugh... Nothing as bad as this... :/
                      All those promises... "We can make this work." "We will show them we can do this."
                      All of them lies.
                      I was looking into grad schools out there - I may still end up back there, but he is NO LONGER a deciding factor.
                      We'll see, but right now... it just hurts.

                      I probably won't leave fully - I just won't be around as much.

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by nemolove_22 View Post
                        Thank you. I had a feeling that something was up - but ugh... Nothing as bad as this... :/
                        All those promises... "We can make this work." "We will show them we can do this."
                        All of them lies.
                        I was looking into grad schools out there - I may still end up back there, but he is NO LONGER a deciding factor.
                        We'll see, but right now... it just hurts.

                        I probably won't leave fully - I just won't be around as much.
                        Well I truly am sorry you are going through this, it's a terrible thing to go through. Something I've learned along my journey is just do whatever makes you happy. You can't be sad if you're doing something that makes you smile =)
                        "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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                          #13
                          I'm working on sorting through pictures that were taken today before this whole thing blew up in my face. Hopefully that'll help some. :] (Photography is one of my go-to happy things that I know I'm good at.)

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by nemolove_22 View Post
                            I'm working on sorting through pictures that were taken today before this whole thing blew up in my face. Hopefully that'll help some. :] (Photography is one of my go-to happy things that I know I'm good at.)
                            I'm sure that'll help a lot =)
                            "We are beings attracted to the essence of hope, and life is the all encompassing hope that everything can change; that everything can be better."

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                              #15
                              Originally posted by Unconditional View Post
                              I'm sure that'll help a lot =)
                              It's helping some, not as much as I thought, but it's a start. I'm sure it'll hit me worse tomorrow or the next day, or next week.
                              When I've had the time to process it all.

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