Frustration justified?

[Redheart14]

So like, "I feel like..." vs "you are"? It might be fatigue but I'm only half-getting where you're coming from there, so forgive me. Can you give a couple of examples?

Yup that's it. I felt like or I'm feeling.

[lordpsymon]

Yup that's it. I felt like or I'm feeling.

Okay so I was right the first time. Sweet. :P

[Redheart14]

When are you speaking to her next?

[lordpsymon]

Probably tomorrow morning when I wake up.

[Redheart14]

Good luck (I'll have my fingers crossed for you)!

[lordpsymon]

Thank you! Hopefully we can reach an understanding that makes us both happy. That's all I really want in the end.

[Hollandia]

I think he should pause it while we're on the phone. We're only on the phone 30 minutes. It's a DVD so he can just start it up again. Plus he's seen it 3 times already so it's not like he doesn't know what's happening or will happen. Of course it's worse when it's our days off, but he has his time prior and it just seems to continue into our time. And then I have to keep repeating what I say or just forget trying to talk.

For 30 minutes a day I would agree with you. This is why the quantity of time really matters. My SO would skype me for at least two hours a day on work days and more like 6-8 on days off.

@OP, How much time do you two spend together on average?

[lordpsymon]

@OP, How much time do you two spend together on average?

It really depends. She has a rather irregular work schedule, so basically whenever we can. Perhaps about 3 Skype dates a week with a daily phone call? It can be difficult to arrange with a 16 hour time difference.

[Redheart14]

Did you end up chatting to her about it?

[Hollandia]

It really depends. She has a rather irregular work schedule, so basically whenever we can. Perhaps about 3 Skype dates a week with a daily phone call? It can be difficult to arrange with a 16 hour time difference.

Dos she have only small amounts of free time? It really depends on that balance.

[lordpsymon]

Did you end up chatting to her about it?

No. Instead I got accused of flirting with someone else after she had a bit to drink on Skype. I'm not even sure what to feel right now.

Dos she have only small amounts of free time? It really depends on that balance.

It varies. She sometimes has heaps of time, other time she doesn't.

[Redheart14]

Oh gee I'm really sorry to hear that! How did she take that?

[lordpsymon]

She apologized and says she forgives me. She told me that she just gets very jealous sometimes and that a conversation I had on a thread on Facebook seemed flirty.
I really don't want to mess this up. :\

[lilspitfire]

She apologized and says she forgives me. She told me that she just gets very jealous sometimes and that a conversation I had on a thread on Facebook seemed flirty.
I really don't want to mess this up. :\

She should have asked you about it instead of accusing.

[lordpsymon]

She said it was around four weeks ago and couldn't remember what the thread was about, so I couldn't have even explained the context.
It's hard to say if she misunderstood or if I was careless, but either way, I care about her too much to let this ruin anything.