Whadaya think?

[agentholli]

I think the important thing to get out of your boyfriend is to see if he's just upset because it's a protective, I don't like you around bad influence instinct, or if he's truly going to try and control your children's interactions with the other family. The first would require lots of loving, reassurance, and perhaps a gentle reminder that he has to suck it up for the kids' sake. the second is a more serious issue that you'll have to figure out the best way to address.

Good luck!

I have got it out of him, that it is the first thing you stated...he's just upset because it's a protective, I don't like you around bad influence instinct, or if he's truly going to try and control your children's interactions with the other family.

Thanks for all the advice, everyone