This was an idea I had in my mind for quite a while.
And readin Caitlins thread about her parents likin Denise I decided to ask you guys for an opinion.
Ok so I have mentioned the problem with my SOs parents once before but here it is again for everyone to remember/read it.
When my SO and I started talkin 2 years ago his mother saw him messaging me on Facebook and when she asked who that is my SO said Im Brandons friend from Germany and that Im a really nice girl. But she didnt like it cause he has never met me in person.
She said she doesnt want him to talk to me but he still did. We did txt a lot and when his parents saw that they have to pay almost 200 bucks for his international texting they said they will cut him off the internet and phone if he continues talkin to me.
The reasons why he should stop talkin to me were first off we havent met in person, cause of that he doesnt know if Im really the girl I claim to be. He even once told me that his mom said that I could be a prostitute or a sexual predator.
Eventhough it hurt me I could still understand their concerns cause my parents have the same.
Like 1-2 months ago she asked him somethin like whos he talkin to and that he doesnt have to lie cause she saw him lookin at my profile on Facebook. And he again said somethin like that he doesnt talk to me that often but that I am really a nice girl. And he slapped him across the face.
In 3 days my SO and I will have our 5 months together and his parents still dont know we're datin. I personally told him not to tell them cause I dont want them to cut him off the internet completely etc so that I would lose him completely.
But the thought of me writing them a letter is comin up more often.
I was thinkin of tellin that who I am basically, that I go to school and what I wanna do in life. I wanna send them pictures of me and my family, of me and friends and so on. And I want to write the letter cause its more personal than e-mail since I havent met them.
I'd also ask them if they'd be willin to meet me (and my family if they want) on cam once.
What I expect from this: I dont expect them to be like "OMG hey yes welcome to the family!!" neither do I expect them to let my SO fly over this very second but as a first step I'd like them to just accept the fact that we talk and that we happen to fell in love with each other and have been for 5 months now.
Just like my parents do. They dont mind me talkin to him and they dont mind the relatinoship as long as its not affecting my school etc.
I think I will talk to my SO about this tonight and see what he thinks, especially since he knows them the best lol
So I was wonderin what you think?
Have you been in such a situation and if so what have you done?
And readin Caitlins thread about her parents likin Denise I decided to ask you guys for an opinion.
Ok so I have mentioned the problem with my SOs parents once before but here it is again for everyone to remember/read it.
When my SO and I started talkin 2 years ago his mother saw him messaging me on Facebook and when she asked who that is my SO said Im Brandons friend from Germany and that Im a really nice girl. But she didnt like it cause he has never met me in person.
She said she doesnt want him to talk to me but he still did. We did txt a lot and when his parents saw that they have to pay almost 200 bucks for his international texting they said they will cut him off the internet and phone if he continues talkin to me.
The reasons why he should stop talkin to me were first off we havent met in person, cause of that he doesnt know if Im really the girl I claim to be. He even once told me that his mom said that I could be a prostitute or a sexual predator.
Eventhough it hurt me I could still understand their concerns cause my parents have the same.
Like 1-2 months ago she asked him somethin like whos he talkin to and that he doesnt have to lie cause she saw him lookin at my profile on Facebook. And he again said somethin like that he doesnt talk to me that often but that I am really a nice girl. And he slapped him across the face.
In 3 days my SO and I will have our 5 months together and his parents still dont know we're datin. I personally told him not to tell them cause I dont want them to cut him off the internet completely etc so that I would lose him completely.
But the thought of me writing them a letter is comin up more often.
I was thinkin of tellin that who I am basically, that I go to school and what I wanna do in life. I wanna send them pictures of me and my family, of me and friends and so on. And I want to write the letter cause its more personal than e-mail since I havent met them.
I'd also ask them if they'd be willin to meet me (and my family if they want) on cam once.
What I expect from this: I dont expect them to be like "OMG hey yes welcome to the family!!" neither do I expect them to let my SO fly over this very second but as a first step I'd like them to just accept the fact that we talk and that we happen to fell in love with each other and have been for 5 months now.
Just like my parents do. They dont mind me talkin to him and they dont mind the relatinoship as long as its not affecting my school etc.
I think I will talk to my SO about this tonight and see what he thinks, especially since he knows them the best lol
So I was wonderin what you think?
Have you been in such a situation and if so what have you done?
Good luck!
) Don't mention being in love, definitely don't say stuff about "forever", or anything a parent would think is over the top! Seriously, just write a polite introduction letter. You can tell them how awesome their son is, and how you care for him very much, and how happy you are to be in his life. Talk about the importance of school to you (even if ya don't mean it), and how you understand their son's focus on school is important also. Just talk about yourself, and make it a positive letter that's not too long, skip any type of drama, and it'll be OK.
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