Not talking since a week

[NadWil]

differentcountries, I don't think we should make assumptions, especially since you do not know them and their situation in detail.

soulofmusic, which contact information do you have of each other again? Your kik and Skype name? What if he lost his phone, would he be able to reach you still, or is your contact information only on his phone?
It is really weird that his phone seems to be deactivated, especially since you say you were really in love and serious about each other. I understand that you are confused and worried. Do you know any of his friends, or someone that knows him where he lives?

[soulofmusic]

Exactly, we were contacting other from our phones, so that's why I don't know how he could contact me. I have only his kik and skype name, now his facebook account (added him last week). I don't already know his family and the only person I could contact via facebook would be his mother. She is not aware of our stuffs but if I contact her I would only present myself as a friend. I considering to do it, because I almost sure he didnt mean to make me worry that much. But, I know I can be really dissapointed if It doesnt turn well, but I think I prefer to know the truth than continu to worry and know nothing about what is going on

[0897klpq]

I don't see any harm contacting someone from his facebook - just be short and simple.

"Hi, I was wondering if X is busy? Haven't heard from him in a while"

The less/more simple you write the better.

[soulofmusic]

I don't see any harm contacting someone from his facebook - just be short and simple.

"Hi, I was wondering if X is busy? Haven't heard from him in a while"

The less/more simple you write the better.

Does that is okay or is it too long?
" Hi Mrs. X, I'm Y's friend and I haven't of his news since awhile. Wondering if everything was fine. "

And ask for his email/ way to contact him or something after her reply saying I have something important to say to his son?

[differentcountries]

I think he is shutting you off. Do you really want someone to tell you in plain words that he dumped you this way? Especially since you also have his Facebook and Skype account, he should be able to contact you from any computer, but he has not.

[soulofmusic]

Well, differentcountries, it's not like he saw my messages and didnt reply, he hasn't even received them ! I think I can't conclude anything from that.

[differentcountries]

Ah but he can also count the days, he knows it has been two weeks of no contact . Any normal person would contact you through your other means of contact, even if he has not been able to read your kik messages.

[soulofmusic]

I don't have any proof he didn't try, that's why I want to be everything clear, even if it can destroys me if it doesn't turn well.

[0897klpq]

If you guys never met and he did dump you this way there is no harm trying to find the exact answer.

I'd recommend you do what you think is right. I am the type of person who would like to know for sure than to wonder.

[soulofmusic]

I prefer to know what's happening, because.. what if he just had bad luck? I don't want to put my relationship in the garbage from a supposition.

[Miasmata]

Go ahead and ask someone on Facebook that he's close with what's up. Just keep your message short and neutral, and take it from there.

[0897klpq]

I would just ask if he is busy. Don't ask them for a different contact method.

If you can find someone else other than his mom that would be better as well.

[TheSteelAngel]

Y'know this story intrigues me because a similar thing has happened to me as well. I was not dating the guy I was talking to but we were pretty close. We would talk everyday day for months until he just stopped talking to me. This hurt me really bad so I went on his facebook after not hearing from him for months asking why. I also told him that I had feelings for him just to finally get that off my chest. He finally messaged me back an hour later telling me that he does in fact like me but he just couldn't handle the distance. This did hurt me but I felt relieved at the same time because I finally got an answer. I pray that you get an answer from your guy soon OP because you deserve to know the truth no matter how painful it may be.

[NadWil]

I definitely agree that certainty is better than wondering for the rest of your life, what could have been the reason! Even if it hurts, you will have clarity.

[Ahava]

Has he been active on his facebook account during the time you have not been in touch?
Do your messages to his facebook go through?

I really understand your need for clarity. DC's point would be fine if the relationship had lasted for 3 weeks, but 3 months non stop communication needs some sort of closure.