Announcement

Collapse
No announcement yet.

problems with a ldr

Collapse
This topic is closed.
X
X
 
  • Filter
  • Time
  • Show
Clear All
new posts

    problems with a ldr

    I will probably get hated for this but what the heck.. I need to talk to someone.

    So I'm sorta in a ldr with a guy in Canada(I'm from UK), it's been a month or less. This story gets bad from here. He has a girlfriend HOWEVER he insists if he could leave her he would. He can't leave her because they live together, and then he would have nowhere to live. We talk whenever we can due to time differences and that his girlfriend is very protective. Yes. I know that this is classified as cheating emotionally. I tell him a lot that I'm ruining his relationship and maybe life with talking to me, but he says he wants to risk it. He wants me, not her. We both love each other, It's my first ldr and I'm not sure if it's right. I didn't ask him to do this. We just clicked like most people. But I feel terrible knowing I could ruin someone's relationship and leave themhomeless. We both love each other and want to meet up one day. Could you give me some advice on ldrs and tell me what you think i should do - stop or keep trying.. thanks

    #2
    Sorry, but I highly doubt that you know enough about each other after a month or less to LOVE each other. You are infatuated. I note you are 16, please don't waste your time with this guy.

    He's cheating on his girlfriend now and using her for a place to stay. What makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you if he ever leaves her for you? Think carefully about this and get out of this situation before you get sucked in any further.
    Met Online : July 2013
    Met in person : April - May 2014 (3 wks)
    2nd visit : June - August 2014 (2 months)
    3rd visit : December - Jan (2wks)
    Proposal : December 2014
    Closed distance : February 2015
    Married : April 5, 2015


    Comment

    Working...
    X