My bf courted me 5 years ago before i went abroad, we stayed together for 6months and was very happy. He made me feel very special and a priority. I really refused to be together that time since i know im going abroad anyway but he cried and beg for me to stay. I like him so i stayed.during the time we were together, Thats the time i felt what love really means. We've been on LDR for almost 3 years. During that tym, we have poor communication. My bf is medicine student so he is busy. I had been very lonely since he doesn't talk to me that much and it feels like im not important to him. So we broke up because im involved with a fling. I tried to talk to my bf but he's still mad. I've been trying to talk to him few times in a month to see whether he's not busy and say hello. We're okay i guess but it took me 2 years to ask him again if we could get back together. He told me that he wants to make sure if he feels the same way as before for me. The sad part is he is talking to another girl on the phone which he never had met before. And he lied to me about it. I went back to my home country just to talk to him personally. This is my first time coming back and he's surprised to see me. I stayed with him for 2 weeks and we got back together. He told me he still likes me. When i went back abroad, we're okay but communication wise, he doesn't txt that much even he have means. He tried to break up with me once but as for now, he never tried again.
My question is. Is it right to get him back again after all that happened because i really love him. The loneliness and missing feeling i have before comes back again since he doesnt think of me in a day. And because now, he hav somebody that he talks to but he told me he doesnt txt her anymore. Im not sure why i still love him and i can't move on. I won't be giving up but im confused if i did the right thing. I joined this forum maybe somebody can help me and give some optimism. Thanks in advance
Its just so unfair for him to always leave me hanging on the cliff. Its not even my choice to be together in the first place 5 years ago. He's the one that pushed the relationship and now he doesn't fulfill his duties as a partner. I need some rational encouraging words and opinion please
My question is. Is it right to get him back again after all that happened because i really love him. The loneliness and missing feeling i have before comes back again since he doesnt think of me in a day. And because now, he hav somebody that he talks to but he told me he doesnt txt her anymore. Im not sure why i still love him and i can't move on. I won't be giving up but im confused if i did the right thing. I joined this forum maybe somebody can help me and give some optimism. Thanks in advance
Its just so unfair for him to always leave me hanging on the cliff. Its not even my choice to be together in the first place 5 years ago. He's the one that pushed the relationship and now he doesn't fulfill his duties as a partner. I need some rational encouraging words and opinion please
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