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    Help!! My LD ex wants to meet up, what should i do?

    We had a 10 month relationship but we've known each other almost our whole life. He's been living outside our country for 10 years and last year we started a LDR but had to end it 7 months ago since we couldn't find a way to close our distance. I visited every 2 months but he couldn't handle watching me leave and being apart, it really depressed him, he even stoped eating... So he didn't want to keep going as a LDR. We were in contact for a while, last time we spoke was 2 months ago and now he's visiting his family for the holidays and wants to meet up, i still believe he is the one, i miss him and i love him but i'm scared of what will come if we meet up, what could he want? I'm afraid to end hurt once more. What should i do? Help!!!

    Thanks
    Last edited by Gaby3536; December 10, 2014, 11:19 PM.
    Tags: breakup
    #2
    If you want to see him then see him. One drink or dinner won't hurt. It doesn't mean you have to start dating again.

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      #3
      If you do get together again, be sure to take his post -visit blues seriously. There are lots of ways to cope and here are many suggestions.
      I made love to him only twice, she thought and looked at the man laying asleep beside her. And yet still it is as if we have been together forever, as if he has always known my life, my soul, my body, my light, my pain
      - Paulo Coelho, "Eleven minutes"



      "Bız yüzyılın aşkı vardır" - We have dated since Sept. 2013. To see our full story, click here https://members.lovingfromadistance....and-our-visits

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        #4
        Well, you have known each other a long time, but I would move forward with a guarded approach.. I mean, he's in town, he knows you love him... Read between the lines for the "just in case"... I have ex's that STILL try to contact me ( And NOT for friendly conversation) even though they know Im married!! Just go in with your eyes open, and everything will be fine.. Blessings..

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          #5
          Thank you all!!! I decided to meet up with him, i don't wanna regret not going. I'll be careful and avoid all relationship topics unless he brings them up. I' ll tru to see it as hanging out with and old friend and have no expectations at all....
          He was very excited and happy when i agreed, so i think that's good!
          I'll keep you posted and tell you how ir went, we're meeting monday!
          Thanks for your replies
          Last edited by Gaby3536; December 11, 2014, 04:01 PM.

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