So i am currently home in Australia for the holidays. My boyfriend had his family's Xmas in California and somehow, his nosey niece stumbled across my hidden alias Instagram that featured my pole dancing photos. (i have been dancing for sport for 2.5 years at a studio).
His best friend and his wife and his niece were really uncomfortable about it and asking if I was a stripper. I got pretty severely slut-shamed and my boyfriend made me feel pretty bad about it, even though he says he 'doesn't care' that I pole dance.
How should I handle this? I feel really bad about myself now that I've been slut-shamed, and it doesn't seem like he did all too much to stick up for me, because I'm pretty sure he secretly agrees with them...
His best friend and his wife and his niece were really uncomfortable about it and asking if I was a stripper. I got pretty severely slut-shamed and my boyfriend made me feel pretty bad about it, even though he says he 'doesn't care' that I pole dance.
How should I handle this? I feel really bad about myself now that I've been slut-shamed, and it doesn't seem like he did all too much to stick up for me, because I'm pretty sure he secretly agrees with them...
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