Maybe your SO just really doesn't like public display of affection, have you talked about this? I have dated a guy who was super sweet to me in private, but rather distant when we were around other people, just because he hates seeing PDA an wouldn't want to make other people feel weird.
I think this is something you two need to talk about and I think the fact that he doesn't take things like these more easily is because you are not bringing them up more often!
At first, when my man told me I did something that hurt him or he thought was weird, I got really upset, I hated myself, but now we're at the point where he can bring up what bothers him and I listen and take it as "this is my line, please don't cross it" rather than "I wish you weren't such a shitty girlfriend".
I think this is something you two need to talk about and I think the fact that he doesn't take things like these more easily is because you are not bringing them up more often!
At first, when my man told me I did something that hurt him or he thought was weird, I got really upset, I hated myself, but now we're at the point where he can bring up what bothers him and I listen and take it as "this is my line, please don't cross it" rather than "I wish you weren't such a shitty girlfriend".
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