MY SO continues to amaze me

[TaraMarie]

So, long story short.... Our date to close the distance has been pushed back about a month due to meetings he has to be out of town for and isn't finished packing up his house yet. Naturally I was very upset about this since I came home yesterday, because he was supposed to be here Saturday and that wasn't going to happen. Without going into detail, I found out in my way to the airport Friday that something happened with my daughter at school Friday and the police got involved for an investigation against one of her teachers. My ex husband was handling it ( I found this out as I was getting in the plane). I got home late last night, but didn't see her until tonight, and I got more details about what happened. I texted SO to tell him what happened and he texted me back that he booked a flight and rented a car And will be here Saturday afternoon so we can go Monday to the principal and find out what's happening (schools out this week), then go to the police station and talk to the detective investigating the case. I can't believe he is doing all of this for her and for me. He's my hero and I adore him.....and now I adore him twice as much!

[Miasmata]

That's what a relationship should be all about - Being a team and handling stuff that needs full attention together. I hope things work out okay for your situation!

[abna1]

That's really sweet of him! Having him there for support will be so helpful. I hope your daughter is okay?

[Honour]

Hope things are ok! It's great your SO is doing all this and is by your side every step of the way.

[TaraMarie]

That's really sweet of him! Having him there for support will be so helpful. I hope your daughter is okay?

Thank you. She's ok. it seems he has a problem with his hands. Eight girls made complaints about it between Thursday and Friday. The school called my ex (although they are supposed to call me) after she spoke with the counselor, principal, sheriffs deputy and finally a detective. They didn't call my ex until AFTER my daughter was interviewed and gave a written statement. Actually, the principal told him not to go to the school. She's only 14. They should have called immediately, and especially before she spoke to the police! I am so upset about the way this was handled.

He was new to the school in January, and apparently this has been going since then. She has him for three classes but in one class there is another teacher so he keeps his hands to himself. There's a teacher with the same name from a neighboring county who was fired 19 years ago for putting his hands on a girl, but I don't know if it's the same man. I want to hurt him!

[merlinkitty]

Oh good grief!! Yikes!! I know you'll get this sorted out but I wish schools would use better sense when stuff like this comes up!!

[Ejoriah]

I'm so sorry you and your daughter have to go through this, it sounds very traumatic! And you're definitely right that they should have called you before she spoke to the police alone!!

I'm glad your SO will be with the two of you on this.

[Ahava]

I'm so sorry to hear what happened. Hugs to you and your daughter.

[abna1]

Ohmy, that's terrible! I'm so sorry. Hope the school and the police will get everything sorted out quickly and I'm glad she's okay

[Redheart14]

So glad to hear your SO is giving you his absolute best. I'm so glad during a time of crisis he was able to be there for both of you. Hope it all gets sorted and your daughter is ok. At least you've got solid support coming now.