I am 16 and am in a LDR and have been for almost 2 years. My boyfriend and I's story is a little crazy and when I tell people they judge me for it and don't believe it will work out between us. I even lost a good friend to this. We met on the chatting website Omegle(you may have heard of it) we met under a religion tag so we have the same religion. As time went on we realized we share likes and dislikes in SO many things it's crazy. Now when I tell people this next part is when they really start judging me. I have never met my boyfriend in real life. I live in Idaho he lives in New Jersey so we have a super far distance. We call each other and facetime and text all day basically. We've been through a lot but I wouldn't trade it for anything.
We are always talking about our future together and having kids and marriage and everything and everyone thinks I'm really weird for that :/ a lot of the times it's depressing hearing people tell me that kind of stuff but my bf and I see it as motivation to prove them all wrong. I suffer with insecurity and doubts about our relationship all the time not because I don't think we are right for each other but because I feel I don't match up to him. We just got over a big fight about that exact subject. I know arguments are healthy for a relationship but I hate them lol
Anyways, I don't know if it sounds weird or wrong but I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with and I wouldn't trade him for the world. I've never touched him never kissed him(I've never even had my first kiss$ never hugged him never even seen h face to face in real life yet I have this feeling like this spark that he's for me and I've never had this with anyone else before.
So I guess I wrote this to hopefully give hope to some of you struggling in a LDR. When you find the right person you will KNOW. We believe we can make it through these tough times and meet for real when I'm 18. It's a long time from now but we have faith and trust in each other and tomorrow is our 1 year and 10 months anniversary
)) good luck to you all!
We are always talking about our future together and having kids and marriage and everything and everyone thinks I'm really weird for that :/ a lot of the times it's depressing hearing people tell me that kind of stuff but my bf and I see it as motivation to prove them all wrong. I suffer with insecurity and doubts about our relationship all the time not because I don't think we are right for each other but because I feel I don't match up to him. We just got over a big fight about that exact subject. I know arguments are healthy for a relationship but I hate them lol
Anyways, I don't know if it sounds weird or wrong but I know he's the one I want to spend the rest of my life with and I wouldn't trade him for the world. I've never touched him never kissed him(I've never even had my first kiss$ never hugged him never even seen h face to face in real life yet I have this feeling like this spark that he's for me and I've never had this with anyone else before.
So I guess I wrote this to hopefully give hope to some of you struggling in a LDR. When you find the right person you will KNOW. We believe we can make it through these tough times and meet for real when I'm 18. It's a long time from now but we have faith and trust in each other and tomorrow is our 1 year and 10 months anniversary
)) good luck to you all!