Am I overthinking the situation

[Cosmonaut]

Update on what's going on. We broke up. She lost the spark in our relationship during the half year mark apparantly. And she has been struggling to break up with me for these past 2 months. She said she still loves me and cares for me as a human being. But it's over. I think she may have a serious medical problem though since she was crying and she told me she was sick. So yea. I feel alone right now. At least I got an answer.

[1991md]

Hey bro, I am sorry to hear that. If you need someone to talk to feel free to hit me up. I can try my best to help out.

[douglas2275]

I'm sorry to see this latest update, I can't imagine being in your place. You say she lost the spark? I'm not familiar with your whole story, did you ever meet her in person?

[Cosmonaut]

We met twice. Once last summer and once before school started in january. She lost the spark about a month before the second visit. I saw this coming during the 2 month break. It still hurts. But right now I'm feeling relieved? Which is weird. But I can now focus on what I want to do with my life. So whatever happens happens. All I know is I know in my heart that our paths will cross again in the future. So I'm focusing on me for a good long while.

[douglas2275]

I'm really glad that you are looking at it this way, I wish you the best in life and I'm sure that you will find your special someone.

[Miasmata]

You seem to have a healthy attitude about this. That's a big plus! Sorry it went this way, but as long as you don't overall regret the experiences you made with her, I think you got nothing to worry about for now. Take good care of yourself and look forward. All the best!

[Cosmonaut]

I'm trying really hard to keep a healthy attitude right now. Being with her helped me put more of an emphasis on school. So I got that at least. Im probably going to focus on myself before I start dating again.