I have been talking almost nightly with a new woman in California. While I took it upon myself, to help her get a new phone. That was before a male friend of hers started sleeping on the living room couch. She told me that her friend was staying there because he wasn't getting along with his mother. Seemed genuinely platonic.
She also told me they never fight. She told me previously, when I asked where I would sleep if I were to come out there, that I could sleep on the couch. Well, Even if I had the $ for the flight + food for the week. How could I sleep on the couch with him there. Unless she has two couches. She also told me, that he doesn't have any problem with her 'breaking out into song'. Whereas, Her own father, and her son's father never liked it.(why would someone have a problem with that....weird)
But then she told me a couple nights ago that, she has three credit/debit cards, and while not using two of the cards, she has a $1,000 balance on one of the cards.
She has been concerned, when I don't call her every night. Yet she tells me about the fun things they do together(movies, eating out, going to the casino, etc.). There have even been a couple times, that I have called her, when it turned out they were at the casino. Also that, she doesn't know what to talk about.
He seems like a genuine guy. Because of suggesting to her, to send me a Youtube compilation video of the show 'South Park'. I don't watch the show myself. Because I have no interest in it. But I went ahead and watched part of the video anyway. I got bored with it. Because the entire video was 4hrs. 55mins. long. There was nothing in the video, that he was overtly trying to tell me.
I am not going to tell her, to tell him, to leave her apartment. But, Even if I had the $ to travel out there, I would be going to see her, not him.
Any feedback is appreciated.
She also told me they never fight. She told me previously, when I asked where I would sleep if I were to come out there, that I could sleep on the couch. Well, Even if I had the $ for the flight + food for the week. How could I sleep on the couch with him there. Unless she has two couches. She also told me, that he doesn't have any problem with her 'breaking out into song'. Whereas, Her own father, and her son's father never liked it.(why would someone have a problem with that....weird)
But then she told me a couple nights ago that, she has three credit/debit cards, and while not using two of the cards, she has a $1,000 balance on one of the cards.
She has been concerned, when I don't call her every night. Yet she tells me about the fun things they do together(movies, eating out, going to the casino, etc.). There have even been a couple times, that I have called her, when it turned out they were at the casino. Also that, she doesn't know what to talk about.
He seems like a genuine guy. Because of suggesting to her, to send me a Youtube compilation video of the show 'South Park'. I don't watch the show myself. Because I have no interest in it. But I went ahead and watched part of the video anyway. I got bored with it. Because the entire video was 4hrs. 55mins. long. There was nothing in the video, that he was overtly trying to tell me.
I am not going to tell her, to tell him, to leave her apartment. But, Even if I had the $ to travel out there, I would be going to see her, not him.
Any feedback is appreciated.
