Originally posted by douglas2275
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Oh wow, then yea, you definitely gave her way more than enough time to talk to her friend about it. -
Hey buddy,
I will give you my honest opinion. I totally understand you going out of your way to be kind, and sweet, and be a great boyfriend. I agree with what everyone else says that you are a total sweet heart.
I don't exactly know your full story, and I briefly skimmed your older posts, but I have to say, in my opinion at least, that I understand you think she is worth your time and effort to get to know her and be there for her. Heck, your situation really is tough and not everyone can handle that for so long.
She probably does have a lot on her plate, and I can't say you did anything wrong. Just give her her space - when she is ready she will apologize to you. Until then, a little space would be good. Depending on how things workout when she gets back to you, you can better understand the situation and realize if she is still worth all the time and effort.
Goodluck man, all the best to you!Comment
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We had a long talk last night, by text sadly but at least we talked. I guess we worked things out and she ended up apologizing and I feel good about the way the conversation went. Communication is still a thing, not sure what I'm going to do but she said she was going to make an effort to try and improve it because it is driving her crazy that we don't talk enough.Comment
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That is good to hear! Is her friend going to let you send the necklace to her?Originally posted by douglas2275 View PostComment
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I'm happy you were able to talk and I'm very glad that she apologized. Hopefully once she turns 18 things will start to get better.Originally posted by douglas2275 View PostTo those who dream, nothing is ever far away.
Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.
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I have not talked about the delivery of the necklace to her again yet.
However on a very positive note, I might be able to deliver it to her in person!
Originally we had planned to meet the summer/fall of 2016 but I have been given an opportunity meet her sooner. I have a buddy who is moving to Ohio in July. He wants me to visit him so sometime around August-October I will be in Ohio.. Which is only 900 miles away from Brittaney (aka 1 day drive). She has agreed to try and arrange a time for me to drive over. I would probably stay for about a week at a campground that is 15 miles from her.Comment
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So, I'm Doug's gf. The thing with necklaces was a horrible communication. My fault. My best friends sister was admitted into the hospital around the time he told me about it. She was near death. My friend was a mess. I didn't want to bring it up to her at the time. Of course I feel horrible for yelling at him. I was just so scared. My friend knows most of our relationship and is a bit sceptical. She is also very close with my mother. Who yes does abuse me. For no reason and quite often. I hand it as best I can. He's been so wonderful to me. He's always been there. I'm trying so hard to keep everything settled at my houses...my parents are divorced. My step dad and mother are alcoholics. My dad is very aggressive sometimes. My step mom things I over react about a medical condition I have. It causes extream pain at random. My family has hit yet another bump in the road..I've been in and out of lawyers offices, therapist offices, and medical rooms. On top I have work. I know its no excuse. I do miss him every day and im hoping to have much more contact with him very soon. I just wanted to explain things he felt he couldn't or well shouldn't shair. Thank you for being there for him.Comment
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