Do I go or do I stary home?

[Gayle1462]

My question...My boyfriend has been under a lot of stress lately. I planned a trip to go see him this weekend. Over the last couple of days I have said that I will see you in a couple of day or See you Thurdsay night. I have even asked him if it ok for me to come see him this weekend. He has not responded to the question or said anything about me coming or not. He has texted me several time after I have made the comments. I plan to leave today and was wondering do I go or do I stay home. any advice would be great. I don't want to show up and add more stress to him but I don't want not to go what if he is expecting me?

[Mims27]

You planned the trip together and he hasn't told you not to go right? Then you should go. Maybe you'll be a good distraction for whatever he has going on right now.

[Shauny]

It's really up to you. You know him more than anyone. Is he the type to need time alone sometimes, or is he sensitive and appreciate any support he can get. He may feel he doesn't want to ruin the time for you but deep down craves your support and wishes you were close, hugs, physical contact etc.
If you go, you'll have to arrange another time, if you do go he'll either be glad to see you or feel guilty because he feels like he's been bad to you during stress. Either way he will accommodate you knowing he loves you, and perhaps treating him to a restaurant or walk will help him clear his stress a little. He would appreciate that.