We're on a break.

[whatruckus]

So, we're on a break now. Tonight. We talked. I'm a mess. I don't really want to talk about it right now, just need some support. Don't know how long it's going to last this time. Maybe in a few days I'll be able to talk about it. I don't know what to tell people now if they ask, especially family. I don't now what to say, and I'm supposed to see most of my family in a couple of weeks.

This sucks.

Yes, it has to do with the rut we've been in. He thinks we both need time to re-evaluate ourselves and find ourselves again because both of us lost our drives.

[snow_girl]

What do you hope a break is going to achieve? Really think about it, be prepared to walk away. Everything will work out.

[farandaway]

I'm really sorry to hear that. Don't worry so much about what others think. Just take care of yourself for now. Hugs!

[emsimes]

Awww, I'm sorry to hear
Honestly though, I agree with snow_girl on this. It seems like you've been putting a lot more into the relationship than you've been receiving. Whatever happens, just remember that everything will be ok. I'm always here for you

[Moon]

I'm so sorry. I agree with snow_girl though, so take some time to seriously think about what you want and if you're sure you're getting enough out of this relationship to meet your needs, and if you ever will. Be kind to yourself.

[differentcountries]

I am sad to hear that. It seems to me he has been kind of vague towards you, so I hope you get some answers. Don't tell your family just yet. Lots of hugs!

[Honour]

Sorry to hear it whatruckus I hope you both find and get what you need from this break, whatever it may be, but I have to admit, I agree with snow_girl. A break never worked for me in the past, but hopefully for you, it will!

[Cienna]

I'm sad to hear that! Just be strong and use this time to do something for yourself! It seems like you've had stressful times lately and usually taking time for yourself will make you feel better to just take that time off. I hope it'll end the best way for you!

[abna1]

I'm sorry to hear that! Take some time to breath. It seems like you've a lot on your plate lately. Sending you a

[R&R]

I'm sorry to hear it. When you are ready to talk, please feel free to email me. (FB might be easier since I'll probably see that first.)

[Elizabeth123]

Thinking of you and hoping for the best....

[hmrambling]

Wishing you the best. Take good care of yourself and make yourself a priority during this time.

[Miasmata]

I'm really rooting for you, Whatruckus. You deserve your own respect, and his, too. I hope he realizes how much you've been investing and that he can (and should) give back more. You've made so many changes and he hasn't. I sincerely hope he sees that. You deserve being respected. Be good to yourself now!

[Redheart14]

PM me if you need me. Sending you positive thoughts.

[Unicorn26]

Oh no...

I hope you can sort this out. Big hugs to you xxxx