sometimes feeling we r more friends than in a relationship

[elaineh4120]

everytime i leave my bf in morocco i feel terrible. i cry on the flight home.
but when i get home i just seem to loose all emotion as if my brain is trying to stop my being upset all the time.

i have days where i feel low and alone even though i have my work and friends around me.
even when i talk to my bf i dont seem to have any sort of connection. its more like friends than a relationship.

we dont really have much time each day to talk because of our jobs. We dont even have time for video chat only fb messenger and i hate that aswell, cos feel disconnected from him
could this be because i am feeling empty and the brain has cut off emotions?

anyone else have this problem

[pizza_heart]

Have you talked to him about it? Maybe you can agree to some time to skype over the weekends. When i was in a LDR with my bf, we would honestly prefer fb messenger. He's not much of a talker, hates phones, and our skype time was very limited for lack of privacy/wonky internet connection. If you feel disconnected, talk to him. LDRs aren't easy, some people can handle them well, others not so much. There were times i felt a bit disconnected from him, but i was just tired from work, stressed, and he was also tired from work and school. It can be fixed if both put some effort on making it work. Good luck!