It's over.

[TristenLove]

As you may have read in previous posts of mine, I was having issues with my SO. I couldn't deal with the soon-to-be-ex-wife and secrets any longer

I told him that I love him, but that after 6 months I deserve to be a known part of is live and should be trying to build a relationship with his family. And that if that wasn't possible, if I had to continue to be a secret, than he could call me when the divorce is final.

So it's over.

I can't believe it... Even though I was the one that ended it, it doesn't change that it hurts.

[paulawriteslove]

*hugs* I am so sorry to hear this!

[leonina]

You poor thing. I'm glad that you were strong enough to not put up with being a secret. Good luck sweetie!

[DropkickDisco]

I'm so happy that you got the strength to speak your mind.
however I'm so sorry about your breakup. I hope things get better for you.

[LadyMarchHare]

In the end you had to do what was best for you, though I know that's no comfort at all. We're all here for you, though.

[ChrisxTosha]

I'm sorry you had to go through all that.

Hopefully you find peace with your decision soon.

[CynderAngel]

So sorry to hear that. Everything happens for a reason though. I'm sure you made the right decision.

[squiddie]

I'm sorry that you had to end it, but I think it's best for you. You deserve to be with a man who doesn't feel he has to hide you...the very fact that your ex did that for so long leads me to believe that there were other things going on.

[Karringtyn]

I am so sorry. We are all here to listen. How did he react??

[Erika]

I'm so sorry that this happened. Good luck and stay strong!!

[XX, Lexi]

I'm sorry about your breakup, TristenLove.
We're all here for you<3

[BoogleBee]

So sorry to hear about your break up I hope you are okay, or will be okay...

[TristenLove]

Thanks everyone. I'm doing ok. of course I haven't tried to go to bed yet, I know that's when I'll really fall apart. It's hard knowing that I won't be watching the clock waiting for his call, or writing an email to him every night. Or looking forward to the next time I feel his kisses on my neck or his hand on my cheek.

But I know it's for the best.

[Andy]

I'm so sorry to hear this, I hope things can still work out between you. Stay strong *hugs*

[okapi]

Be strong. U can go through it