So I've been here with my SO for a few weeks now and everything has been going great. However, being here has made me realize that I do not want to do long distance anymore. With everything going on in my life, it's really hard being apart. We were fighting all the time on Facetime and getting bored. I talked to my SO and we're coming up with a new plan.
Instead of me coming down on a Work and Holiday visa, we're going to go to Canada. Since he is unable to come to the states, we think it will be a lot easier for us to go there. Even if I had to come home and he had to stay in Canada, he would only be a 4 hour plane ride away instead of 14 hours. I would fly home and then drive up to Canada and he would fly up, that way we would have a form of transportation. I'm kind of looking for advice on the work aspect there and how difficult it would be to get work. My SO also has family that has lived there, so they're helping us plan too.
We have been talking about engagement and marriage (yes I'm young, but I've been with my SO for about 4 1/2 years so we know each other and our habits pretty well) as an option for us to be together in his country, but he kind of wants to wait. I'm not saying I'll give up on my relationship if we have to do long distance, I'm just saying it's getting really hard and we're looking into different options for us.
Any advice or comments would be great, thanks!
xx
Instead of me coming down on a Work and Holiday visa, we're going to go to Canada. Since he is unable to come to the states, we think it will be a lot easier for us to go there. Even if I had to come home and he had to stay in Canada, he would only be a 4 hour plane ride away instead of 14 hours. I would fly home and then drive up to Canada and he would fly up, that way we would have a form of transportation. I'm kind of looking for advice on the work aspect there and how difficult it would be to get work. My SO also has family that has lived there, so they're helping us plan too.
We have been talking about engagement and marriage (yes I'm young, but I've been with my SO for about 4 1/2 years so we know each other and our habits pretty well) as an option for us to be together in his country, but he kind of wants to wait. I'm not saying I'll give up on my relationship if we have to do long distance, I'm just saying it's getting really hard and we're looking into different options for us.
Any advice or comments would be great, thanks!
xx
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