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    Last edited by Elykyle; April 11, 2016, 05:18 AM.

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    Originally posted by Elykyle View Post
    Hey guys I have good and exciting news and also not so good news I'll start with the good news first! Me and my Boyfriend are meeting sooner than expected I'm seeing him in 16 days I'm going to a musical he's been working hard on in school so that's very exciting and amazing. But now let's start with the not so good news lately things have been so tough for me you can read my last thread for more detains but I'm in an amazing relationship and everything is great and then one day it's like I woke up one more with anxiety which is constantly making me over think doubt and question my feelings even though i know what my true feelings are. I have my my good days and bad days some days I feel back to normal and I'm happy and other days I'm over thinking everything and it isn't easy at all it's really making me sad to the point of tears this especially happens when me and my boyfriend get into a little argument over something silly and then I start over thinking like we're drifting or it's not working or I start over thinking we're losing feelings but i really do know this isn't the case this anxiety is really getting to me and starting to control me and now it's becoming really tough can someone give me insight or advice it would be greatly appreciated thank you this is a very serious relationship and he means the world to me
    Relationships, CD or LD, are going to have issues throughout it. It's very rare for people to get along 100% of the time. You are going to have different points of view on subjects and disagree here and there. It doesn't mean that the relationship is coming to an end.

    Sometimes, writing it out is enough to keep yourself from going crazy over it. "SO and I had an argument today because he thinks Dr. Who is a ridiculous show and I love it. It made me think how are we ever going to make it work if we can't even agree on a tv show. Realistically, I know that this isn't a big deal and I have to stop stressing about things little like this. If someone was to break up over a tv show, it's not someone I would want to be with anyway. I know we aren't going to break up over this, so I won't think about it anymore." Maybe just getting those feelings out will allow you to think more rationally.
    To those who dream, nothing is ever far away.

    ​Distance is to love as wind is to fire. It blows out the little ones and fans the big ones.

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