Hello there! i'm a first timer here, but i want to share something and receive advice as well. Me & my boyfriend meet in one of the online dating site. during that time everything was fine, video calls, sweet messages, etc. after 2 months we decided to meet for the first time. he went to me and decided to have a short vacation in Vietnam. during our stay there, i feel loved, everything is great! like we are in one place that there's no other people except us. long and sweet conversation is there. holding hands wherever we go, hugs and kisses. those part are the best. after our vacation ends and he needs to go back to Poland, but before that i asked him if in somehow he changed mind and he say "nothings changed" maybe i was thinking too much, having a separation anxiety. i do love him. i do treasure everything, but in some point i'm afraid of something i didn't know. i don't event have any assurance, i don't know if is only saying that nothings changed because we're still together, but what if he go back to his country, are we still ok? or in somehow everything will change. he is working as an engineer and i do events. we both have a stressful job. we had a small fight before he leaves, what i told him maybe we can change something, both of us have this different attitude. he keeps on explaining and pushing that he is right, but me i don't talk too much, once he raised his voice i will not talk but he don't want that kind of attitude of me. sometimes if i feel very tired of explaining and he will never stop talking i will just quiet and cry. i don't know how to handle him in that scenario, but whatever happens i still love him deeply. i don't want to give up on him, but what if he already gave up? i don't know what will happen to me next. i'm tired of starting from the scratch. i don't know what's next for the both of us. a lot of things running into my mind, some are, should i visit him, should i look for another job next to him, etc.
the separation anxiety makes me sick!
i hope someone i can talk too.
Thank you,
Grace
the separation anxiety makes me sick!
i hope someone i can talk too.
Thank you,
Grace
Comment