Need some advice. I met my long distance girlfriend at her country several years ago and we've been seeing other ever since every 6 months. She is independent, very warm and we love each other. My girlfriend went on a trip to another country for business. There, of course, she met some new colleagues.
As part of the whole business deal, an employee from that firm in the country she visited, has to come to her business and work for one month temporarily.
Here's the problem.
She has been telling me that she has been inviting this one man, from his country, out on a lot of tourist places in her city where she lives. She spent the entire day with him taking him out to places and having lunch. Now she tells me that she's going to spend another day showing him other touristic parts of the city. I don't know why she is so nice to this guy. Obviously, it sounds like he invited her outside to a lot of touristic spots (she never told me) and now she is reciprocating.
This really bothers me because she really does not have to take this guy and spend so much time on tourist spots. It should really only be business related. I didn't tell her anything about how I feel. A side of me tells me that she likes this guy a lot, (why would she be spending so much time with him) or he could have strong feelings towards her. You never know what goes on in a guys head.
Another side tells me that, if she was truly interested in this man, why would she be telling me everything?
I want to remain alpha, non-jealous, and non-possessive. I know women like that in a man.
What should I do? Should I talk to her, and risk the entire relationship? Or should I leave it alone and ignore it?
As part of the whole business deal, an employee from that firm in the country she visited, has to come to her business and work for one month temporarily.
Here's the problem.
She has been telling me that she has been inviting this one man, from his country, out on a lot of tourist places in her city where she lives. She spent the entire day with him taking him out to places and having lunch. Now she tells me that she's going to spend another day showing him other touristic parts of the city. I don't know why she is so nice to this guy. Obviously, it sounds like he invited her outside to a lot of touristic spots (she never told me) and now she is reciprocating.
This really bothers me because she really does not have to take this guy and spend so much time on tourist spots. It should really only be business related. I didn't tell her anything about how I feel. A side of me tells me that she likes this guy a lot, (why would she be spending so much time with him) or he could have strong feelings towards her. You never know what goes on in a guys head.
Another side tells me that, if she was truly interested in this man, why would she be telling me everything?
I want to remain alpha, non-jealous, and non-possessive. I know women like that in a man.
What should I do? Should I talk to her, and risk the entire relationship? Or should I leave it alone and ignore it?
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