Kind of really frustrated now...sigh! I just wrote a private message to a member here who helped me before how my bf and I were ok now, and then I found out he still hadn't added me on Facebook.
I didn't use FB a lot, according to him he used it only to browse other people's profiles. We were not friends on Facebook since I didn't find it necessary. He went to Hong Kong at the end of last month and before he left, I asked him if we should become friends and add that "in a relationship with XXX" thing on. He said he had all kind of people on his facebook, and he didn't want to reveal his personal life to all those people and get all kind of comments. I thought it's just fine (I still think so) since I didn't use it that much anyways. But he said that I could just add him there so I'd know what he's doing there.
I did it one week ago, leaving a pretty cheeky message. He said he'd add me once he logged in. I knew he didn't use it much so it's fine for me. Then a few days earlier I found out a girl on his FB was his ex and a couple of others were her friends, he said they're not in contact for years and couldn't even recall her friends. I don't doubt it. He said he'd delete them if I preferred it that way, and I said ok. Both of us were a bit moody during this process but no big arguement and I thought we're perfectly fine this weekend as we talked and video chatted.
Then just now I found out that he still hadn't confirmed my request but he had two more new friends...and his ex and his ex's friends are still there. Well the deleting his ex thing doesn't really matter to me (if he wants to do something, he can always email or call), but I just don't get why he doesn't add me. Not that I care if we are "friends" on FB, what really concerns is whether he thinks that I'm that kind of girlfriend who checks his FB from time to time just to make some troubles etc. After all the communications we had, I can't believe if that's what he thinks...
It will be great if somebody who's more familiar with FB can tell me this is just a technical problem and he might have just missed my request of something like that. If that's not the case, I'd like to ask for suggestions, should I bring it up? He asked me to add him, he said he'd confirm my request, he told me it's ok to let me see what he's doing there...
I didn't use FB a lot, according to him he used it only to browse other people's profiles. We were not friends on Facebook since I didn't find it necessary. He went to Hong Kong at the end of last month and before he left, I asked him if we should become friends and add that "in a relationship with XXX" thing on. He said he had all kind of people on his facebook, and he didn't want to reveal his personal life to all those people and get all kind of comments. I thought it's just fine (I still think so) since I didn't use it that much anyways. But he said that I could just add him there so I'd know what he's doing there.
I did it one week ago, leaving a pretty cheeky message. He said he'd add me once he logged in. I knew he didn't use it much so it's fine for me. Then a few days earlier I found out a girl on his FB was his ex and a couple of others were her friends, he said they're not in contact for years and couldn't even recall her friends. I don't doubt it. He said he'd delete them if I preferred it that way, and I said ok. Both of us were a bit moody during this process but no big arguement and I thought we're perfectly fine this weekend as we talked and video chatted.
Then just now I found out that he still hadn't confirmed my request but he had two more new friends...and his ex and his ex's friends are still there. Well the deleting his ex thing doesn't really matter to me (if he wants to do something, he can always email or call), but I just don't get why he doesn't add me. Not that I care if we are "friends" on FB, what really concerns is whether he thinks that I'm that kind of girlfriend who checks his FB from time to time just to make some troubles etc. After all the communications we had, I can't believe if that's what he thinks...
It will be great if somebody who's more familiar with FB can tell me this is just a technical problem and he might have just missed my request of something like that. If that's not the case, I'd like to ask for suggestions, should I bring it up? He asked me to add him, he said he'd confirm my request, he told me it's ok to let me see what he's doing there...
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