Our first big fight in 2 years...

[curlywave]

I think some people read my previous post..
About that I'm feeling left behind and need distraction..

But I just can't be so patient when it comes to this.
When he said nothing, waiting for 4 - 5 hours for a text is becoming too long.

I asked him for a vid call date, that's my intention to be calm down and to feel assured that he would like the same so we can go to the rest of the week easier than before. But it's not happening. At 10pm i texted him and ask how is it there? Is it possible for a date?
The answer is of course "I want to but....."

Late night I ended up calling him just to hear his voice a bit. I can't help but saying I'm still so shock his being this busy.
And he got offended. I remember when we still in the early stage of relationship, he called me a lot more than I call him, I didn't even ask for it.
Now the last months I almost have to ask him to, is it possible to call?
That's why said to him, I want you to fall in love with me again

Yet still he's being offended.

Short story, he's so mad and when I try to call him again he didn't pick up.

Yet again I can't help but feel sorry to cause him more stress.

I try to give him some positives vibe, but all he does is only responding. Not giving me some positives vibe back.
Now, I don't either should i contact him again and just try to be positive or just leave him alone a bit?

I so messed up.

[Redheart14]

People get busy but you still need to make the ones in your life a priority. You seem to be trying hard to initiate and create opportunities to talk. The fact he's getting cranky and avoiding changes to talk seems to be odd to me. It seems like you're the one putting in the effort here.

[C.C.]

That's why said to him, I want you to fall in love with me again

What exactly is he mad and offended about?
Despite agreeing that he should make more time for you and prioritise you more, I don't think this phrase is the best thing to say? (if I understood it correctly)
Anyway, you two really need to have a lengthy conversation and discuss things, compromise if necessary and decide what's the best~
Best of luck.

[curlywave]

People get busy but you still need to make the ones in your life a priority. You seem to be trying hard to initiate and create opportunities to talk. The fact he's getting cranky and avoiding changes to talk seems to be odd to me. It seems like you're the one putting in the effort here.

I took a moment stays silent after the argument.
I get what he meant somehow. But I can't guarantee I won't blow up again next time.
But, yeah I'll keep trying my best.
Since he made up on his very own way I guess...

[curlywave]

What exactly is he mad and offended about?
Despite agreeing that he should make more time for you and prioritise you more, I don't think this phrase is the best thing to say? (if I understood it correctly)
Anyway, you two really need to have a lengthy conversation and discuss things, compromise if necessary and decide what's the best~
Best of luck.

He thinks that I take his effort for granted. He said that I give no credit to him.
But I didn't mean anything like that. But he just don't get it.
Anyway, we made up after a moment of silent. Just need to keep my tongue away when my heart is bitter.

[neddrick98]

I love that phrase 'keep my tongue away when my heart is bitter'. It's very easy to say stupid shit when you're feeling angry/affronted. Next time just remember this and think it out a little more.