Pls bare w/me, this is my 1st LDR. I knew that this would be hard, but what makes it even harder is the lack of communication (on his end). He was never a great texter to begin w/, but he was the one who wanted the relationship exclusive and the one claiming he will be the one calling/texting/skyping all the time. He has only been away a couple of weeks, but I am losing interest in this (as in considering seeing other guys) and my frustration is increasing daily. I'm not expecting texting all day, but just texts checking up on how I'm doing and the few texts that I do send throughout the day to be answered (if at all) and not like 5 or more hours later. I know he is busy w/friends, but otherwise at the moment he doesn't have school or work. What can I do? Should I tell him I'm losing interest? I care about him quite a lot, but I have no plans to stay w/someone who doesn't pay attention to me. btw I do have my activities job/friends/family, but I miss that aspect of him.
-
-
What you need to do is that you need to tell him what you want/need from this relationship. From what you have said, you want more communication from him than what you are already getting. You need to tell him that that is what you want or you are gone. It's completely normal for people to lose interest when their needs aren't met. That's not being shallow at all in my opinion. But the bottom line here is that you both need to communicate with each other. Communication is key for a successful relationship.
Comment