Confront a not so loyal SO
Everyone, hello! I've already written my problem here. A month ago I guess.
I and my SO confessed that we love each other. But I'm not sure if we're already in a relationship or we just merely having mutual feelings towards each other.
We met in skout. Last week, I asked him if he still has his account there.
Me: Hm are you still in skout?
Him: Yeah
Me: Hm do you.. hm nevermind hahaha
Him: If you're thinking about that thing..my answer is no. I don't.
Well, apparently, we're referring to him looking for cute girls there and he said no.
BUT. a few days after. I decided to make a new skout account to talk to him.. and I saw him again. The difference is, I'm using a dummy account. I know it's pathetic to make a dummy account and do a small investigation. But what can I do. I trust him but there are times that I'm getting paranoid you know.
So we chatted there and this point of the conversation arose:
Me: I guess youre good looking, why you here? No girlfriend? No special someone?
Him: Nah they arent my type
This broke me a lot. And there's this time that he told me that he's going to sleep..when the truth is he's talking to the 'other me'.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? He's in Korea now and by the end of the month, he'll be back
to the USA to finish university. We manage to talk every day since the time difference is only 1 hour. But when he gets back to the USA, itll be 15hours.
What I have in my mind right now is to confront on July 30th.
And kinda break up with him on that day too.. should I?
PS: I've been crying for a few nights now. He doesn't know how much I love him. And thinking that I won't really be able to meet him is hell. He's planning to come to my place by next year after graduating and having a job.
I and my SO confessed that we love each other. But I'm not sure if we're already in a relationship or we just merely having mutual feelings towards each other.
We met in skout. Last week, I asked him if he still has his account there.
Me: Hm are you still in skout?
Him: Yeah
Me: Hm do you.. hm nevermind hahaha
Him: If you're thinking about that thing..my answer is no. I don't.
Well, apparently, we're referring to him looking for cute girls there and he said no.
BUT. a few days after. I decided to make a new skout account to talk to him.. and I saw him again. The difference is, I'm using a dummy account. I know it's pathetic to make a dummy account and do a small investigation. But what can I do. I trust him but there are times that I'm getting paranoid you know.
So we chatted there and this point of the conversation arose:
Me: I guess youre good looking, why you here? No girlfriend? No special someone?
Him: Nah they arent my type
This broke me a lot. And there's this time that he told me that he's going to sleep..when the truth is he's talking to the 'other me'.
WHAT SHOULD I DO? He's in Korea now and by the end of the month, he'll be back
to the USA to finish university. We manage to talk every day since the time difference is only 1 hour. But when he gets back to the USA, itll be 15hours.
What I have in my mind right now is to confront on July 30th.
And kinda break up with him on that day too.. should I?
PS: I've been crying for a few nights now. He doesn't know how much I love him. And thinking that I won't really be able to meet him is hell. He's planning to come to my place by next year after graduating and having a job.
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