Arguments.

[Laika]

Hello, seeking your advice again..
Haven't been able to be on that much lately (during the past month) since I felt sick and my net haven't been the best.
Last night we ended up in two arguments. One where he got mad on a game and let it out on me after.. It kinda got better, we talked and so on. But then he asked me when I was going and I couldn't answer him since it depends on when I'm too tired to not be able to stay awake anymore. Apparently he found it annoying since I couldnt give him that answer.

He then later called me annoying twice which caused me to log off. His reaction was to delete all his friends on FB, which includes me and our picture of us together. (He then replied saying it was nothing) that he barely use FB, so didnt see a reason to it.. But explained that it looked different to me in my eyes (as if the person wanted to break up)
He ended up calling me shallow the same night because i found the stuff with facebook weird..

I'm not sure how to think about all of this anymore.. Today he seems really cold, barely making long sentences anymore, doesnt really wanna do anything together (feels that way) he logged on a game where he was going to do missions and asked if he wanted to do them together but apparently he was almost done.. Whenever I suggest something we can do he shoots it down..

How would you guys react to this kind of thing and handle it? It's getting frustrating.. I'm aware that the fact we haven't been able to be together more than maybe 3-4 hours each day lately have been bothering him.

[R&R]

You don't need this type of person in your life. Your relationship isn't supposed to be a huge stress factor and worrying about what is going to set him off next. When a relationship becomes more of a stress or a negative than a positive and a person is more of a drain than a productive part of your life, it's time to step back and evaluate the situation.

And 3-4 hours a day isnt' enough??? Seriously? Even living together you don't always get that with work, outside activities and responsibilities.

[Elizabeth123]

Time to treat yourself right. This person is not ready to have a relationship. If he was interested in you he would be adding joy to your day.

[Laika]

Thank you your answers, think im aware of what i need to do. Just hard to do so When we have dated for almost 4 years and the Day after some of these arguments he can be nice and we can have lots of fun

[Redheart14]

Thank you your answers, think im aware of what i need to do. Just hard to do so When we have dated for almost 4 years and the Day after some of these arguments he can be nice and we can have lots of fun

But these arguments continue to happen though.

[Laika]

But these arguments continue to happen though.

They do..
We are still together, I tried to give him at last chance after telling him EXACTLY how he make me feel.. This seemed okay at first but not Anymore..
As for now im confused as to how to break up..
Hes very depressive saying im the reason hes still here. This leaves me worrying what Will happen if i break up.. im worried hes going to suicide..

[R&R]

They do..
We are still together, I tried to give him at last chance after telling him EXACTLY how he make me feel.. This seemed okay at first but not Anymore..
As for now im confused as to how to break up..
Hes very depressive saying im the reason hes still here. This leaves me worrying what Will happen if i break up.. im worried hes going to suicide..

You are NEVER responsible for another person's actions. You can not let someone guilt trip you into staying in a relationship that you aren't happy in.

[sasad]

You are NEVER responsible for another person's actions. You can not let someone guilt trip you into staying in a relationship that you aren't happy in.

THIS!!

Do NOT let him to continue to emotionally bully/abuse you.

[Katy_G]

They do..
We are still together, I tried to give him at last chance after telling him EXACTLY how he make me feel.. This seemed okay at first but not Anymore..
As for now im confused as to how to break up..
Hes very depressive saying im the reason hes still here. This leaves me worrying what Will happen if i break up.. im worried hes going to suicide..

What he needs is professional help. You aren't responsible for keeping him psychologically healthy, especially in this situation

[xsilhouette]

You don't need this kind of drama in your life. As others said, this is not a person you should spend your life with. If you keep forgiving and feeling responsible for leaving it aont gonna make it any better too, it'll be just worst later.