Backstory:
My girlfriend and I met in our hometown and we dated three years before being long distance. She move away for work since she couldn't get the position she wanted at home due to her having no experience in that field. She got a job that is 3000 km away and I was more then happy for her, I helped her move and did everything that I could do to be 100% supportive. I own my own business and I can't move with her or else I would of 100% done that. We've been long distance now for 6 months and have seen each other once since then.
Now:
On my end its becoming awfully hard. I miss her like crazy and I miss having a companion. Im almost seeing that theres no point to being in a relationship when we're so far away from one another. I did fly out there and spend 3 weeks with her and it was just amazing but I want that 365 days of the year. She's always tired and not in the mood to FaceTime so we just have phone calls 99% of the time. The plan of her is to be out there for 2 years and I just dont think I can be like this for that long. She's my best friend but at the same time she's so far away. I dont see a point in seeing someone only 60 days out of a year. She feels like the relationship is fine and wants to continue thing but she's also in a new environment which means she's not thinking about it as much as I am. ( My life is pretty routine, it happens when you own your own business)
Im in a dilemma on where I don't know if I should end things and we both live our separate lives so she doesn't have any pressure from anyone to come home, and Im not constantly waiting on her. I just miss having someone I can come home to and cuddle with or joke around with. It's simply not the same when you're over the phone.
I just need some help on making a decision since I dont want to regret this when Im 80. I do love her very very much.
My girlfriend and I met in our hometown and we dated three years before being long distance. She move away for work since she couldn't get the position she wanted at home due to her having no experience in that field. She got a job that is 3000 km away and I was more then happy for her, I helped her move and did everything that I could do to be 100% supportive. I own my own business and I can't move with her or else I would of 100% done that. We've been long distance now for 6 months and have seen each other once since then.
Now:
On my end its becoming awfully hard. I miss her like crazy and I miss having a companion. Im almost seeing that theres no point to being in a relationship when we're so far away from one another. I did fly out there and spend 3 weeks with her and it was just amazing but I want that 365 days of the year. She's always tired and not in the mood to FaceTime so we just have phone calls 99% of the time. The plan of her is to be out there for 2 years and I just dont think I can be like this for that long. She's my best friend but at the same time she's so far away. I dont see a point in seeing someone only 60 days out of a year. She feels like the relationship is fine and wants to continue thing but she's also in a new environment which means she's not thinking about it as much as I am. ( My life is pretty routine, it happens when you own your own business)
Im in a dilemma on where I don't know if I should end things and we both live our separate lives so she doesn't have any pressure from anyone to come home, and Im not constantly waiting on her. I just miss having someone I can come home to and cuddle with or joke around with. It's simply not the same when you're over the phone.
I just need some help on making a decision since I dont want to regret this when Im 80. I do love her very very much.
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