I wrote about visiting the guy (for the 1st time after talking for awhile) in other posts and I am super excited. The thing that bugs me is he never really initiates the Skype chats, he is always up for them (unless w/friends) and we can spend hours talking, one time he called me back after he had to cut our convo short. Sometimes though, he forgets, like today. I texted him earlier about having a Skype chat later, he agreed (no specific time though), I texted him about it 2 hours or so after he got off. He was sorry he didn't Skype me earlier because he went out w/friends, which is totally fine, but I would have really liked for him to have told me. I know he is interested because I have experienced uninterested guys and these guys will just stop texting you or stop any contact. He tells me he is somewhat clingy (which I don't mind cause I am as well, w/my partner at least, not someone who isn't interested). We have discussed relationship stuff, but idk what we are yet (gonna take it slow). I just want him to know, that if he does want something long term I want him to step up to the plate once in awhile, he also stated that he wants open communication about problems and such. How do I bring this up?
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Originally posted by Elizabeth123 View PostYou talk openly with him and share your needs for communication. Do not attack/accuse. Ask him what he values and what he expects in communication as well. See if you can make a plan for Skype time that works for you both. Enjoy your visit!
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Originally posted by Elizabeth123 View PostYou talk openly with him and share your needs for communication. Do not attack/accuse. Ask him what he values and what he expects in communication as well. See if you can make a plan for Skype time that works for you both. Enjoy your visit!
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The original problem is really an easy fix! Just tell him: Hey, if you plan of being gone for a while, could you let me know beforehand? I just want to know a timeframe so I don't wait at the computer while you're out
Or even: Hey, if you know you're gonna be gone for a while, can you shoot me a quick message of when you'll be back? I can do some of the chores I've been pushing aside in the meantime
A day of nothing, I mean, I would wait for now and see if he contacts you later on with what happened.
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Originally posted by Elizabeth123 View PostYou talk openly with him and share your needs for communication. Do not attack/accuse. Ask him what he values and what he expects in communication as well. See if you can make a plan for Skype time that works for you both. Enjoy your visit!
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