I need some advise on LDR

[Kobra]

Hello everyone,

I have been with this lovely girl in a LDR for over half a year now, it has always been really tough as she didnt really have time to chat or talk with me, lately it got even worse, she couldnt even give me 5-10 mins a day, all i was getting was one or two messages a day. I tried pointing this problem out, but every time i did she got mad at me and blamed me for not understanding her situation (but all i really wanted was to talk to her, to find out how she is doing, her to ask me how i am doing (she actually never asked about my life as she was just too busy for it). The last time i tried to tell her that i really wish that she could find some time for me - she told me that she will not chat with me for a couple of days (just ignoring me now), i really love her alot, i really do, but I just have no idea how to behave in this situation anymore. I really need an advise, please, i trust you people.

[sasad]

If she has no time for you, then let her be. Have you met up? Skyped or anything?

[Kobra]

We used to skype during summer time and i went to visit her, we spent a week together and that time was really great

[Bee'sknees]

Well, in my own personal experience you will have time if you really are interested. Very few people are so busy that they don't have 10 minutes a day for a person they care about. Sending a text message takes seconds. I mean, everyone is different, but I've had guys that didn't have time for me and those relationships never worked. And I've been immature and just ignored people that I haven't been interested in. Communication is the key especially in LDR's, so if I were you, I would raise the issue. I would firmly tell her that I don't feel that she cares about me and the lack of communication is taking a toll on the relationship.

Is there a time difference that is affecting your situation and what is she busy with?