I want to start a discussion on a subject that has been on my mind for a while. I hope this translates well on paper (or on screen).
In a long distance relationship there is alot of time to envision how the next meeting will go and how it will feel. Or the moment in the future when you finally reunite or finally close the distance. You fantasize about you partner and in your head he is perfect for you. You will do things together and it will be the best time ever. You envison the futere and then they start feeling uncomfortabel with the plan you discussed?
What if the reality doesn't feel the way to thought it would? You have fun, but it is not great. You try to tell your anecdotes but they don't find them funny since they don't know the people. You feel like don't have anything to talk about. Even if your expectations were not unrealistic, the reality was a let down and the fantasy world you had gets bruised.
Has these happened to you? How did it feel? Did you get over it or was it a deal breaker? I would like to start a discussion on this subject and hopefully you guys can give insight on both positive and not so positive sides.
In a long distance relationship there is alot of time to envision how the next meeting will go and how it will feel. Or the moment in the future when you finally reunite or finally close the distance. You fantasize about you partner and in your head he is perfect for you. You will do things together and it will be the best time ever. You envison the futere and then they start feeling uncomfortabel with the plan you discussed?
What if the reality doesn't feel the way to thought it would? You have fun, but it is not great. You try to tell your anecdotes but they don't find them funny since they don't know the people. You feel like don't have anything to talk about. Even if your expectations were not unrealistic, the reality was a let down and the fantasy world you had gets bruised.
Has these happened to you? How did it feel? Did you get over it or was it a deal breaker? I would like to start a discussion on this subject and hopefully you guys can give insight on both positive and not so positive sides.
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