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    Positive outlook for the future, I'm super anxious?

    If you have been following along, you already know I visited a guy I have been talking to online/through Skype and text. I wish I had stayed longer, but I felt if it went wrong, I didn't want to be there for awhile. I haven't felt emotions like this for someone since the split up w/my 1st love (its been a year since). I dated a guy briefly before this one and I can say the feelings weren't aren't as strong, I think I just felt comfort. We have talked about seeing each other again, he feels so happy that I went down there and was bragging to his friends that I was coming down to visit. He says he feels lucky to have such a catch and we already posted pics together on social media. We took down our profiles. I told him I'm afraid, due to being hurt and he said we could take things slow. Is this a positive start and could it turn into something serious?

    #2
    It's a good start indeed

    As he said, take it slow. Get to really know each other, and hopefully have him visit you too!

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      #3
      Definitely a positive start. No rush, so take your time and really get to know him before committing to anything. But the fact he's reacting so strongly to you is most definitely a good thing. Good luck!

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        #4
        That sounds like a great start! Relationships aren't races, so don't feel like you need to go at any pace neither of you are comfortable with. It's also a good thing that he's eager to talk to his friends about you. Just enjoy spending time with him and getting to know him better. Best of luck to you both.

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          #5
          Sounds positive to me. The fact he was the one to suggest to take it slow after you shared your worries is a good sign. There's no rush, and getting to know each other rather than rush into something will have a better outcome.

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            #6
            Originally posted by maybesomeday View Post
            Sounds positive to me. The fact he was the one to suggest to take it slow after you shared your worries is a good sign. There's no rush, and getting to know each other rather than rush into something will have a better outcome.
            I would definitely rather take it slow, then have tons of passion just for the relationship to fizzle (this is what happened w/my 1st one). Its exciting and feels good to have someone care for me again in that way, just adjusting to the distance is a little tricky.

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