HI,
My boyfriend has a young niece (age 2) and he just quit his full time job to work on a portfolio and freelance eventually. This week my mom has flown off with my Dad to have surgery and i'm home alone because I couldnt afford to go with her. (im 23, last time I was home alone my mom had to get a brain tumor removed and it was awful because I was alone, im old enough to take care of myself of course, but it's tough for me, im so close with her and ive never been apart from her and dont have anyone else) being someone who has no local friends or family, i'm on my own here for the next week and my boyfriend promised me that now he doesnt have work, he'll skype me every day and be there for me.
Today is the first day, he's been at his sisters house all day babysitting his niece (which is fine, he often does babysit her) but his mom is also there as well. Whenever he looks after his niece he doesnt message me much whatsoever which is also fine because shes young and needs to be watched. I admire him for staying off messenger. But the fact he promised me he'd be there for me and it's now 11pm for him (the niece goes to bed waaaaay too late in my opinion!!) he's posted on twitter a couple times during this time, but not spoken to me for about 3 hours. I'm a bit emotional as it is and it wouldnt be such a big deal if it wasnt already hard enough it's long distance.
I'm certain he'll come online soon and just say he had to give her a bath or get her off to sleep, but I dont understand, his mother/her grandmother is there as well, it doesnt take two people to babysit a child!!! I've had a handful of messages from him today and that's it. I'm getting upset that this is potentially the prospect now. His sister knows he doesnt go out to work so his life will consist of looking after his niece. Which is a big deal when we are 8 hours apart in time difference and it's already hard enough talking to him. I feel like this sounds petty but I'd really like your opinion please? I feel I take such a back seat (to a child yes I should but theres TWO PEOPLE there and his Mom actually sent me a meme about 30 minutes ago, she can come online but he cant? She's his niece not his child but at times you wouldnt think so) He's the loveliest guy in the world but it does get me down whenever he looks after his niece at times, he's not being there for me when I need him and I'm supposed to be okay with it?
My boyfriend has a young niece (age 2) and he just quit his full time job to work on a portfolio and freelance eventually. This week my mom has flown off with my Dad to have surgery and i'm home alone because I couldnt afford to go with her. (im 23, last time I was home alone my mom had to get a brain tumor removed and it was awful because I was alone, im old enough to take care of myself of course, but it's tough for me, im so close with her and ive never been apart from her and dont have anyone else) being someone who has no local friends or family, i'm on my own here for the next week and my boyfriend promised me that now he doesnt have work, he'll skype me every day and be there for me.
Today is the first day, he's been at his sisters house all day babysitting his niece (which is fine, he often does babysit her) but his mom is also there as well. Whenever he looks after his niece he doesnt message me much whatsoever which is also fine because shes young and needs to be watched. I admire him for staying off messenger. But the fact he promised me he'd be there for me and it's now 11pm for him (the niece goes to bed waaaaay too late in my opinion!!) he's posted on twitter a couple times during this time, but not spoken to me for about 3 hours. I'm a bit emotional as it is and it wouldnt be such a big deal if it wasnt already hard enough it's long distance.
I'm certain he'll come online soon and just say he had to give her a bath or get her off to sleep, but I dont understand, his mother/her grandmother is there as well, it doesnt take two people to babysit a child!!! I've had a handful of messages from him today and that's it. I'm getting upset that this is potentially the prospect now. His sister knows he doesnt go out to work so his life will consist of looking after his niece. Which is a big deal when we are 8 hours apart in time difference and it's already hard enough talking to him. I feel like this sounds petty but I'd really like your opinion please? I feel I take such a back seat (to a child yes I should but theres TWO PEOPLE there and his Mom actually sent me a meme about 30 minutes ago, she can come online but he cant? She's his niece not his child but at times you wouldnt think so) He's the loveliest guy in the world but it does get me down whenever he looks after his niece at times, he's not being there for me when I need him and I'm supposed to be okay with it?
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