How did all of you handle a situation where your SO lost a loved one? My bf lost is mother three days ago and he keeps telling me he's ok. I'm 820 miles away and trying to save money to see him around the holidays. I'm also moving into a new place in December. I told him I would be there for him if he needed me but he keeps saying he will be fine and I have a lot of stuff going on. I want to be therefor him but financially it's gonna make things very very tight. I feel absolutely Terrible that I am so far away. I love him so much.
He told me that it's going to be awful and a lot of stuff is going to be going on and driving an hour to Chicago doesn't seem very appealing in the midst of everything. I don't know if he really doesn't want me to come or if he's putting up a front because he's a manly man. I want to be there for him but it's not easy. Does anyone have any advise or similar experiences they can share?
He told me that it's going to be awful and a lot of stuff is going to be going on and driving an hour to Chicago doesn't seem very appealing in the midst of everything. I don't know if he really doesn't want me to come or if he's putting up a front because he's a manly man. I want to be there for him but it's not easy. Does anyone have any advise or similar experiences they can share?
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