The other recent thread about having kids with your SO got me thinking about mine, and I was wondering:
Those of you who have kids (or have a SO who has them), have the two met? If they have met, what was the meeting like- comfortable/fun/awkward?? What did you guys do together? If they've not met, do your kids know about your SO?
For my kids, I think it's hard for them to conceptualize someone who's not there day-to-day, or the importance he has in my life. In a way, I almost feel guilty marrying someone whom they've met just once briefly, giving them a step-dad who's not much more than a stranger to them.
Ideally, Scott would be around and getting to know them bit-by-bit and finding a place in their lives before we married, but the distance sure won't allow it. I try to get around it by talking about him a lot, telling them what he does & what he's up to, and they certainly are interested in him.
But they don't *know* him... you know? :/
Those of you who have kids (or have a SO who has them), have the two met? If they have met, what was the meeting like- comfortable/fun/awkward?? What did you guys do together? If they've not met, do your kids know about your SO?
For my kids, I think it's hard for them to conceptualize someone who's not there day-to-day, or the importance he has in my life. In a way, I almost feel guilty marrying someone whom they've met just once briefly, giving them a step-dad who's not much more than a stranger to them.
Ideally, Scott would be around and getting to know them bit-by-bit and finding a place in their lives before we married, but the distance sure won't allow it. I try to get around it by talking about him a lot, telling them what he does & what he's up to, and they certainly are interested in him.
But they don't *know* him... you know? :/
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