Ok after all this unsure in the relationship, i decided to ask if i should come down for our next planned trip. He told me i can if i want to, i didnt say heck yes, i asked him only if he wanted me there. He told me he has too much going on, to postpone for a month or 2. I am extremely devastated.
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He's been upfront about it. People get busy, even in the strongest relationships, it happens. If you go he's pretty much going to be busy and not give you the time and attention you want, which would cause you to be upset. I don't think postponing until he's free is that bad, at least he'd have more time for you. I get you hard your heart set on it, but sadly that's life, sometimes things unfortunately do get in the way. Note that he didn't say don't, he's giving you the choice but letting you know know in advance that it won't be the trip you're hoping for this time (that's ok people get busy). I'd just reschedule for when he's free time wise so you can both enjoy the time together. Keep yourself occupied with other things in the mean time. I know you're upset, but he's been honest about it at least you didn't go thinking he'd be free to do stuff and he was busy with this other stuff the whole time. Think of how you would've felt then. Try keep positive
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Perhaps this timeline will help you look at the progression of the relationship. Is this about a visit being delayed or are you thinking there is something else going on? If there is something else going on, what could it possibly be? How could it be addressed? Is there something that communication can help?Comment
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just reschedule a different date for when he's not busyComment
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Thank you for that!! It's hard keeping track of multiple post with relationship issues in such a short period of time. There are so many negatives in this, i dont know if i should call it a relationship? It seems so one sided..Originally posted by hmrambling View PostBecause data.
Perhaps this timeline will help you look at the progression of the relationship. Is this about a visit being delayed or are you thinking there is something else going on? If there is something else going on, what could it possibly be? How could it be addressed? Is there something that communication can help?Comment
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Wow! I can definitely understand how you would upset by it due to him just canceling it after im sure you were looking forward to it. That definitely sucks.
CLOSED THE DISTANCE FINALLY ON MAY 6, 2017Comment
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Where did you find this at? I would love to see mines on here also.
Originally posted by hmrambling View PostBecause data
Perhaps this timeline will help you look at the progression of the relationship. Is this about a visit being delayed or are you thinking there is something else going on? If there is something else going on, what could it possibly be? How could it be addressed? Is there something that communication can help?CLOSED THE DISTANCE FINALLY ON MAY 6, 2017Comment
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This is, in my humple opinion (I'm referring to the pic) quite disturbing.Originally posted by hmrambling View PostBecause data.
Perhaps this timeline will help you look at the progression of the relationship. Is this about a visit being delayed or are you thinking there is something else going on? If there is something else going on, what could it possibly be? How could it be addressed? Is there something that communication can help?
@OP: Of course, I understand an LDR is difficult, but hey... get yourself together. If you are feeling so bad about it, why are you in it? If you are feeling good about it, stop thinking so negative.
Just my two pence.Distance means nothing when someone means everything.
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Read the OP's newer thread:Originally posted by erwin1973 View Post
https://members.lovingfromadistance....ready-Any-hope
Also the picture is just a timeline made of the names of the threads OP has created.Comment
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I did and I know.Originally posted by C.C. View Post
Distance means nothing when someone means everything.
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