I'm nervous to tell my mum about my LDR with my boyfriend and the age difference!!

[autumn1790]

I generally agree with this.
But this time, as I gathered, what she said was more like "you are giving me advice on something I didn't even ask about" rather than "I don't like your advice". I am the type who gets annoyed by that honestly. If I asked someone specific advice and they started "judging" me on other stuff I mentioned which wasn't even relevant I'd go nuts
I feel like it was misconception mostly this time, though. And that Sasad didn't really mean that.

I agree with you that getting advice on other things can be annoying, but I think R&R's point is right on about handling disagreements with respect. The "Bye!" sounds like something from a 12-year-old, not the level of grace one would expect from someone who demands to be treated as basically an adult. Any way, not trying to muddy the waters any more, just my two cents.

[Chris516]

Sister's boyfriend's house or not, it still comes down to the age and the fact that my mum let her stay a couple of nights with her boyfriend. And as you must know, his parents work night shifts so yes they weren't there. And I know it would be more dangerous staying in a hotel with my boyfriend I met on the internet and just met but did you not read the comment I said earlier. My mum would meet him first before allowing anything, not only is it really close to my house but my mother could also check up on us now and then.

Yes, Age is factor, regardless. Just that I was getting at the 'safety' element. It doesn't matter if your mother met him first, or not. You are still a teenager and a female.

I'm just afraid that my mum won't allow it because everything is different for me. My sister gets more freedom than I do, and I think this is because my mother's known me to be the more good behaved child or whatever you call it. So this news would come quite a surprise for her.

Your sister doesn't have an online boyfriend. You may be better-behaved than your sister. But you are the one trying to make ADULT decisions, when your life, at present, doesn't necessitate it.