So, I know the courtship period is intense and men like to chase and woo women and all that. I know most of you operate very differently than we do.
My BF and I had our first meeting a little over a week ago and it was perfect. He was perfect to me... he was everything I hoped for and then some. He was affectionate, loving, tender, sensual, and there wasn't a moment I was with him that I didn't FEEL that he loved me.
My question is, do yall get... "comfortable" once you know you've got it in the bag? He's been dealing with some stuff this past week and I know that, but the timing is terrible because he's so quiet. When we do talk, nothing has changed, but I don't know if it's just work/stress/roommate stuff or if he's settled in and doesn't feel the need to talk to me constantly anymore... or, worst case, it was all fake. I have pretty bad anxiety and major trust issues, which he has never balked at whatsoever; he's been nothing but supportive and loving and encouraging. I'm trying to focus on what makes sense but my anxiety is throwing me curveballs. I've lived most of my life believing that men fake emotions and if they don't chase you, they don't want you.
Gentlemen... how did your post-meeting LDRs work out? If you pull away, why do you do it?
My BF and I had our first meeting a little over a week ago and it was perfect. He was perfect to me... he was everything I hoped for and then some. He was affectionate, loving, tender, sensual, and there wasn't a moment I was with him that I didn't FEEL that he loved me.
My question is, do yall get... "comfortable" once you know you've got it in the bag? He's been dealing with some stuff this past week and I know that, but the timing is terrible because he's so quiet. When we do talk, nothing has changed, but I don't know if it's just work/stress/roommate stuff or if he's settled in and doesn't feel the need to talk to me constantly anymore... or, worst case, it was all fake. I have pretty bad anxiety and major trust issues, which he has never balked at whatsoever; he's been nothing but supportive and loving and encouraging. I'm trying to focus on what makes sense but my anxiety is throwing me curveballs. I've lived most of my life believing that men fake emotions and if they don't chase you, they don't want you.
Gentlemen... how did your post-meeting LDRs work out? If you pull away, why do you do it?
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