Some background info.. we met back in november and became official in february. we are both 20 and almost every day we played this online game together. we messaged each other every day and i know she really likes me. on the second day that we ever met she told me she was going to see me in person someday.
I dont know what happened but all of a sudden she changed in this past month. my birthday was last month and she kept saying she would send me something but she still hasnt. she says its a high priority for her, but she still hasnt done it. meanwhile i sent something to her back in march and it wasnt any kind of obstacle like she is making it to be. she would message me almost every morning, but for like the past three weeks its been nothing. she only talks to me now if i message her first. also sometimes i message her and she never even looks at it yet continues to post on social media. that really irritates me and makes me feel like she doesnt even care. whenever we do talk, she still has the same feelings towards me but i dont know why she stopped talking so much then. i do happen to be really quiet and i know it bothers her but i dont expect that to cause this sudden change. we havent played together in weeks. we tell each other we miss each other but i dont really feel like shes doing anything to fix it. when i asked why she doesnt talk so much anymore she said it was because she made some friends in real life and shes been out with them every day. i dont see how that would prevent her from talking to me. whenever i am with friends they spend like half of the time messaging their SO. sometimes i feel like she might be cheating but i know for sure she isnt. its her biggest fear and i know she wouldnt do it to me. just last week was the first time since we met that we went a full day without messaging each other. she is the only person i talk to regularly so it really bothers me that she is talking less. she even told me that the relationship is getting dry but i asked her what should we do to fix it and she just said she didnt know. I also asked her about why we dont play together anymore and she said its because i hardly talk on the voice chat. i dont know what kind of stupid excuse that is. i couldnt believe she said that. lately i have been thinking about leaving her but i remember she is the best person ive ever met. i am just having an extremely hard time dealing with her right now and she wont even tell me what the actual problem is.
I dont know what happened but all of a sudden she changed in this past month. my birthday was last month and she kept saying she would send me something but she still hasnt. she says its a high priority for her, but she still hasnt done it. meanwhile i sent something to her back in march and it wasnt any kind of obstacle like she is making it to be. she would message me almost every morning, but for like the past three weeks its been nothing. she only talks to me now if i message her first. also sometimes i message her and she never even looks at it yet continues to post on social media. that really irritates me and makes me feel like she doesnt even care. whenever we do talk, she still has the same feelings towards me but i dont know why she stopped talking so much then. i do happen to be really quiet and i know it bothers her but i dont expect that to cause this sudden change. we havent played together in weeks. we tell each other we miss each other but i dont really feel like shes doing anything to fix it. when i asked why she doesnt talk so much anymore she said it was because she made some friends in real life and shes been out with them every day. i dont see how that would prevent her from talking to me. whenever i am with friends they spend like half of the time messaging their SO. sometimes i feel like she might be cheating but i know for sure she isnt. its her biggest fear and i know she wouldnt do it to me. just last week was the first time since we met that we went a full day without messaging each other. she is the only person i talk to regularly so it really bothers me that she is talking less. she even told me that the relationship is getting dry but i asked her what should we do to fix it and she just said she didnt know. I also asked her about why we dont play together anymore and she said its because i hardly talk on the voice chat. i dont know what kind of stupid excuse that is. i couldnt believe she said that. lately i have been thinking about leaving her but i remember she is the best person ive ever met. i am just having an extremely hard time dealing with her right now and she wont even tell me what the actual problem is.
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