If you could change one thing about your SO, what would it be?

[Andy]

Another hypothetical thread!!!

Ahem....

Yes, so what would it be? Could be something in their appearance, a bad habit, the way they think about a certain issue... anything

Except one thing... it can't be their location

That's way too obvious

Just one thing though!

[xsethx]

My girlfriend was brought up in a non-emotional household because her mom is kinda odd, so I wish she was a bit more emotional sometimes haha. Other than that, love her!

[milaya]

My girlfriend was brought up in a non-emotional household because her mom is kinda odd, so I wish she was a bit more emotional sometimes haha. Other than that, love her!

Exactly the same... with my boyfriend. Except that he had a very strict father, which he feared.
But, sometimes I would also like my bf to be a little more emotional. Not a whole lot, since I'm not very emotional myself, but just so we would at least have the same amount.

Sometimes it's scary how my SO can completely shut of his feelings if he needs to, like during his work periods. (he works for 5 weeks (everyday for 12 hours) and then have 5 weeks off). We once had an argument during his work period, where he was stressed out, and it was like arguing with a robot.

[skinbyrd85]

I wouldn't change a thing - he's everything I've looked for my whole life. We both have our flaws and challenges, and it makes us who we are now. This is the first time in my life that I've ever felt complete. <3

[Andy]

I wouldn't change a thing - he's everything I've looked for my whole life. We both have our flaws and challenges, and it makes us who we are now. This is the first time in my life that I've ever felt complete. <3

Awwwwww

That's very sweet... but...

You're allowed to change one of those flaws in secret... what would it be?

Otherwise everyone says that and this thread becomes a bit pointless

[garnet]

I would slow his metabolism down a little! I am very attracted to him now, but I wouldn't mind if he put on a couple pounds (he would still be within healthy range, right now he's at the lowest end).

[skinbyrd85]

Awwwwww

That's very sweet... but...

You're allowed to change one of those flaws in secret... what would it be?

Otherwise everyone says that and this thread becomes a bit pointless

hehe I honestly wouldn't change a thing. The reason he understands my fears and insecurities and quirks so well is because he has flaws himself that are very similar to mine. We're exactly the same, even when we fight we have the same comebacks and stuff. :P

[PurpleDreamer]

Make him have more confidence and belief in himself. I wish he could see just how truly amazing he really is.

[Andy]

I would slow his metabolism down a little! I am very attracted to him now, but I wouldn't mind if he put on a couple pounds (he would still be within healthy range, right now he's at the lowest end).

I'd change that about myself

hehe I honestly wouldn't change a thing. The reason he understands my fears and insecurities and quirks so well is because he has flaws himself that are very similar to mine. We're exactly the same, even when we fight we have the same comebacks and stuff. :P

Hehe ok fair enough

Make him have more confidence and belief in himself. I wish he could see just how truly amazing he really is.

Awwwwww that's so nice


I would tone Tanja's stubbornness down a little, man can she be stubborn :/

Love you sweetheart

[nicole]

I really wouldn't change him for the world, and I tell him this every day!

One thing I would change though, if I could (Hypothetically), is his compulsion to work out and lose weight because he wants "to get sexy for me". He says he doesn't want to walk around and have people see me with him and say "really? that guy?" I tell him he's an idiot, and he knows he's hot already, but he won't listen. He says I'm way prettier then him, which is not true at all, there are plenty of prettier girls then me in the world. And while it's nice for him to say I'm pretty or beautiful, I hate the way he seems to put himself down. I REALLY HATE IT!!! He is perfect for me, whatever shape or size he is, I don't understand why he cares about random strangers' opinions.

[Caitlin2009]

her smoking is the only thing i would change but other then that i wouldnt change a thing! i love the way she is already so no reason to change anything

[noodle]

His confidence. I wish he would believe in himself a lil more and stop blame himself for everything, like really everything. >_>

[NaNi]

My SO is really slow. ... so I would change that. Like when we get ready for something... she takes ages. AGES. It's not even that she takes forever in the bathroom... no. She just takes ages walking around and checking things and argh!!!

[Mio]

His lack of confidence in himself, sometimes he thinks he can't do things. But he is all I ever wanted!

[LadyMarchHare]

His smoking/drinking habit. I have health issues regarding smoking and I'm not one for alcohol, though I don't mind if he has a glass of wine here or there. I've hated the few times I've had to talk him out of getting drunk because he was upset.