If you could change one thing about your SO, what would it be?

[dynomitegurl]

ummm I would have to change his stubborness! it can get really annoying but i have learned to accept him as that is how he is...he has gotten better but def one thing I could live without lol

[ginaxnj]

I would change the fact that hes not as outgoing as I would like. He would rather stay home then go out and do something. I mean he would rather get me a gift online then take the time to go out and buy it. That really does kind of bug me because I like going out to get him stuff. Hes just very lazy in that aspect. I have more I things that I would change but I'm only going to stick to the question.

[folclor]

I would change...his hesitance in all this. I understand why he has it. I'd have it too if I'd gone through what he went though. But, because he's scared that everything will happen all over again he doesn't plan, he doesn't get his hopes up. Heck, when I was there on my visit, the last night we had together I said, "I promise I'll be back, probably in December." He nearly started crying and said, "No, don't promise that. I don't want you to promise anything, it'll hurt too badly if it doesn't happen. Just do it. You can do it, but don't promise me anything." =/

[machstx]

id change how he isnt able to let his emotions out very well. unless he is drinking haha.

[Luisina]

If you asked him, he's probably like to tone my stubborness down a bit..

So in return I'd like say the same thing about his neatness

To sum up:
HE: makes his bed every morning, smoothens the bed cover, keeps his apartment eerily tidy and almost FOLDS his underwear (jesus!!) he says it's a habit he kept from his compulsory months in the military..
I, on the other hand: quickly yank off the bed cover, leave the duvets in a pile at the foot of the bed, HATE to vacuum and toss my clothes into a crammed closet.

He likes me not being so perfectionistic and neat, and I did manage to partially brainwash him before he went away.. in the end he actually left the bed unmade and had things lying around the apartment.. I was so proud

- I'm not complaining about having a tidy boyfriend as such - that's actually quite nice - but if he could just tone it down a notch^^ then I wouldn't feel like a complete mess next to him..

[xMesmerize124]

If i could change one thing about my bf, it would probably be his stubbornness. He stays so grounded on his views and ideas for certain things its super hard for me to get my point or my opinion across. Then it takes him a couple days or so to see where i'm coming from and change his mind.

[BluePikachu]

*coughcough not be into the whole smoking/drinking scene coughcough*
That's the only thing that I would change if I could. Other than that, I love everything about him (:

[paulawriteslove]

The only thing I would change is how he eats. He always easts fast food! I would like him healthier

[5000miles]

I wish he could say no to people sometimes (not me, of course ... ... actually even me). He works himself to exhuastion everyday because he's a handy man that can't say no. Of course everyone is going to take advantage of that. He can't even say no to a sales person. Or to the bank teller when they try to get him to upgrade his account type or get a new credit card. He doesn't even use the credit cards!!

[Zephii]

I'd tone down his materialistic drive, just a tiny bit.

Failing that I'd work on his overall obsessiveness. Focus is a great thing, but you can get too much of a good thing!

[agentholli]

the only thing I would change was his location. I want him here

[Karringtyn]

His smoking....

[maielle]

I guess I would rather change something in me. I'm just way too emotional and somehow I always say the wrong things totally wrong time. I say things before I actually had time to think them through. I would change all that.

I think he is almost perfect. If I had to pick something I guess I would make him a little bit more confident about his body.

[DarkSolitary]

Make him have more confidence and belief in himself. I wish he could see just how truly amazing he really is.

Same with my boyfriend. His confidence in himself is getting better since I've been with him but he still thinks low of himself. It's sad really since he really is an amazing person.

[Andy]

Tanja's smoking was one thing I did manage to change

Sort of...

She didn't smoke too much anyway tbh but she stopped completely before we even met

I said there's no way I could be with someone who smoked and she stopped soon afterwards

We weren't even together then either I don't think haha!