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Me & my girlfriend are having a online relationship since November 2016. We started texting each other on a social media platform in February 2016. Since then, a lot of things went back and forth.
I knew from the start that I wanted to meet her even if the distance is enormous. She was affectionate from the very beginning and we have a lot of things in common. Last year, we were planning to meet at a Caribbean holiday location. I bought my plane ticket but she cancelled our vacation saying that she has several important projects lined up in her hometown, which makes it impossible for her to take a vacation.
I cancelled the flight. I was a bit disappointed but I was still okay. In December, I suggested that I could visit her in her hometown in September. She agreed and now my flight to Mexico City in September is only weeks away.
We are texting each other very rarely. Her cell phone is broken since last winter, so we only communicate via social media. I would like to text her everyday but she said that she couldn't text me everyday. She said that without stating the reason. I accepted it though and we agreed to text each other every Friday and Saturday.
At least, her texts have been very affectionate up to now, which always made me want to continue the relationship. We also skyped once, I was sending her kisses, she did the same. Things like that make me happy but now I'm just worried.
She's being distant since last weekend. No "honey" anymore, no heart emojis anymore. She says everything's fine though. Last weekend she gave me her full name for the first time, because I asked for it. I googled the name and I found her on the website of her employer including a cell phone number right below her name. I asked her about the number, she said that it was a cell phone used solely for professional purposes.
That was the conversation when she stopped using heart emojis. She's still saying that she wants to see me and that everything's fine but I don't know how to interpret her change in behavior.
I'm trying to clarify this with her right now but the time difference between our countries makes it hard to have conversations in general.
I appreciate every piece of advice!
Me & my girlfriend are having a online relationship since November 2016. We started texting each other on a social media platform in February 2016. Since then, a lot of things went back and forth.
I knew from the start that I wanted to meet her even if the distance is enormous. She was affectionate from the very beginning and we have a lot of things in common. Last year, we were planning to meet at a Caribbean holiday location. I bought my plane ticket but she cancelled our vacation saying that she has several important projects lined up in her hometown, which makes it impossible for her to take a vacation.
I cancelled the flight. I was a bit disappointed but I was still okay. In December, I suggested that I could visit her in her hometown in September. She agreed and now my flight to Mexico City in September is only weeks away.
We are texting each other very rarely. Her cell phone is broken since last winter, so we only communicate via social media. I would like to text her everyday but she said that she couldn't text me everyday. She said that without stating the reason. I accepted it though and we agreed to text each other every Friday and Saturday.
At least, her texts have been very affectionate up to now, which always made me want to continue the relationship. We also skyped once, I was sending her kisses, she did the same. Things like that make me happy but now I'm just worried.
She's being distant since last weekend. No "honey" anymore, no heart emojis anymore. She says everything's fine though. Last weekend she gave me her full name for the first time, because I asked for it. I googled the name and I found her on the website of her employer including a cell phone number right below her name. I asked her about the number, she said that it was a cell phone used solely for professional purposes.
That was the conversation when she stopped using heart emojis. She's still saying that she wants to see me and that everything's fine but I don't know how to interpret her change in behavior.
I'm trying to clarify this with her right now but the time difference between our countries makes it hard to have conversations in general.
I appreciate every piece of advice!
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