Hi all. Yes, I'm already telling my long distance boyfriend that I have lied to him because I feel so guilty already. We've been talking only a few weeks so I feel like it'll Be easier to spit I then out now but I love him so much and I know he'll probably leave but he needs to know the truth, I'm just looking for advice how to do this without hurting him too much. Everything I've told him Is true... except that I told him I'm 18 while I am 16 and I told him I am finishes school whereas I have two more years.. the guilt is eating me alive. Please help.
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Last edited by SarahMillx; September 2, 2017, 05:53 PM. -
The problem with a lie being told, is that every truth you told can and probably will be doubted too. And it's a big lie, in my opinion. I think it totally depends on him if he wants to stay with you.
Why did you lie in the first place? A lie will always come out in the end and that hurts much more than the truth.
I'm sorry to say, but all you can do is tell him the truth and hope it works out well. If he leaves, sorry if I am harsh, you did it yourself. Then at lest learn from it for the next time.
Hope it works out fine for you.Distance means nothing when someone means everything.
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Tell him the truth---it's the least he deserves. He can get in big trouble for this if he's older and someone decides not to like him. Be prpepared that he may leave...it's a huge risk to have a relationship with a minor girl when you're an adult. He deserves to know the truth.sigpicComment
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It's sad that you lied to him about such a big thing, however we can only advice you to tell him the truth straight away, break it down to him as softly as possible.. although it is a big lie so I don't know how thing will work out - good luck!Comment
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