He's in college im still in highschool

[Ashleyk]

We never get to talk maybe 7 messages a day since he is taking a full course load and is in a frat. Not talking all the time is seeming to be fine with him but it is killing me. am i being to obsessive or is it right to want to hear from him more often?

[R&R]

We never get to talk maybe 7 messages a day since he is taking a full course load and is in a frat. Not talking all the time is seeming to be fine with him but it is killing me. am i being to obsessive or is it right to want to hear from him more often?

He is in college. That is a huge change from high school. Not only does he have a full course load, school work to complete but in a fraternity adds another layer to his schedule. He is in a whole new world now and it's going to take up a lot of time.

I would suggest throwing yourself completely into your senior year. There will be a lot of great things for you this year and you should make sure that you are enjoying those as much as possible. The busier you are, the better it will be as your mind will be occupied and not just dwelling on not hearing from him. Plus, these memories from this year with your friends and activities you really will remember for the rest of your life, so make the best of them.

You may want to suggest to him one day a week that you set aside an hour or so for a Skype date just to catch up on your week.